(Closed) What to do? Desperate for answers!

posted 8 years ago in Gifts and Registries
  • poll: What would you do?
    Suck it up and give them the gift card for $200 for each event like they registered for : (0 votes)
    Give them a less expensive gift card for the shower and a more expensive one for the wedding : (7 votes)
    35 %
    Buy something other than a gift card : (11 votes)
    55 %
    Other... please explain below, thanks! : (2 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 3
    18641 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    Wow so you are saying that they have a shower yet they are only registered for gift cards?  That is completely pointless in my opinion.  A shower is for gifts.

    Post # 5
    2004 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2008

    Get them a gift you can afford. I think it’s very rude to register only for expensive things! They should be happy with whatever amount people choose to give, and if they are not, that’s their problem, not yours.

    Post # 7
    18641 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    I agree, buy a gift you can afford.  If they don’t appreciate it, they are very rude and brats!

    Post # 8
    2249 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2018

    I’d go to the shower with a bottle of wine or something small, you dont owe them gifts and especially gift cards! Dont blow your budget, a gift shouldnt be a hardship!

    Post # 9
    183 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Go off registry.  Nothing says that you HAVE to buy from a registry — these are merely suggestions.  But, you might want to do it at a store where they are registered so that if it’s something they don’t want they can return it for a registry item (or to add to that gift card stash).

    Post # 11
    5388 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    Could you give them a gift card for a smaller amount, even if it is for $10? That is what I would do.

    Post # 12
    4480 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

    Strange! I’d buy a bottle of wine. If you have the money, you can also get them a couple of wine glasses to go with it. But I wouldn’t buy someone a gift card for a shower, and certainly not a $200 one. Don’t feel bad; probably most people they invite wouldn’t do that either.

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