- 10 years ago
I just don’t know what to do anymore, my in-laws are terrible… my husband’s sister is a witch. She’s just awful.. the worst. I don’t want to unload again on all the things that have gone on, but let’s just say, it will be so so sooo awkward being in the same room as them and pretending like nothing’s wrong.
I can’t talk to them like nothing is wrong. I just can’t- I’ve done it, its awkward, they act so cold and on edge like they want to kill me or something.
It is SO awkward. Before our wedding we went to a wedding in my husband’s family. I kept a huge smile on my face, kissed butt to get through the night and it was AGONIZING. It was just so freaking awkward. And I think things are worse on their end, they’re just so wacky.
Now thanksgiving and xmas is coming up. I get along with his relatives. His friends sometimes show up at his mother’s house and they’re my friends too, so I feel unsure if I want to just stay out of going over there entirely.
I feel like I have no place. I hate holidays now. I want to be with my husband but I don’t want to go over there. I should just do it, right?
My aund has even battier in-laws and she says she has always made sure she goes to EVERYTHING. I find doing that to zap all my energy though.
Should I just do it and kiss butt and be a phony balony and piss them off good? It so would…
I don’t know what the heck I’m supposed to do. They have always been kind of weird but NEVER so bad until our wedding planning. That’s when the claws came out. I know I’m rambling and not going into things (I have previous posts on this though). I just want to feel warm and cozy and relaxed and enjoy the holidays, but instead I’m on edge, I feel anxious, worried.
I feel like i’d be a total IDIOT to show up at their house after the things that have gone on. What should I do?
And if you have nasty inlaws as well, what is it that YOU do??