(Closed) What to do?? Should I tell my fiance??

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 47
462 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Whenever I’m faced with a tough situation, I ask myself how I would want to be treated. If it were me, I would tell, for a few reasons. First, the type of marriage I want is one where lies by omission are unacceptable. Second, if and when he ever finds out he will have enough to deal with, without thinking he can’t count on you. Third, I would want to know. And last, but very importantly, I believe everyone has a right to their families medical history. I will admit, I never knew my father, and I could be slightly biased. It is a tough decision to make, and no matter what you decide,.I wish you the best of luck, and sincerely hope it works out well.

Post # 48
327 posts
Helper bee

dont tell him, sometimes it’s better to know less than the whole truth. it might be just a rumour.

Post # 49
646 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

a reasonable part of me is saying you shouldn’t tell him.

but i know it would be impossible for me to keep it inside and not say anything to my SO. it’s so complicated =

Post # 51
649 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Maybe you could ask him if he would want to know first. As in, “I saw on tv where this persons family kept a huge secret from them, and then even that person’s SO found about it and didn’t tell them. Would you want me to tell you in that situation?”. Maybe not so obvious, but you get the point. 

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