(Closed) What to do? What to do? (The short version)

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: What would you do?
    Tell her how you're feeling, knowing she may not understand : (5 votes)
    33 %
    Smile and go along with it, it's her day afterall : (3 votes)
    20 %
    Say screw it and not even spend the money : (7 votes)
    47 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1835 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I think it might be her nice way of saying she doesn’t want you involved… I’d say okay and take my place.

    Post # 5
    Member
    1231 posts
    Bumble bee

    Umm so the only reason she wants you there is to be the back up just in case her make up looks bad? I can see how maybe she was thinking of your feelings when it came to being in the party, but your spending all that money to go, be there to do her hair/makeup if the woman she hired to do it, doesn’t do it to her expectations and your not even invited to the luncheon or anything? I’d be annoyed/hurt by that. I guess its really up to you what you want to do. I would say go to the wedding if you are friends but I wouldn’t go to be her back up hair/make up artist. That comes across as obnoxious and rude especially when she said she thought you couldn’t handle being a Bridesmaid or Best Man.

    Post # 6
    Member
    7587 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I think you could let her know it bothered you, but I wouldn’t make a huge deal of it. firsttimemom: could be right too, so you want to make sure you tread lightly

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