(Closed) What to do when parents REFUSE to attend wedding

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
206 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

🙁 I am so sorry you’re going through that. And I am sorry to say it, but that is one of the most selfish things I ever heard of parents doing. For your wedding, it IS all about you, and even if you were getting married in Bangledesh they should find a way there. When they said “it’s not always about you” they were right.. this is about them and how they are too selfish to make a hard effort to see their daughter get married. It has nothing to do with you or anything you did, but how very selfish they are. It sounds like you have a wonderful man who loves you and cares for you deeply, try to concentrate on that! They are the ones truly missing out on that day, and they have to live with themselves knowing that they not only made you feel this way, but missed one of the most important days in your life. And that is sad, and you’re allowed to be sad, but be sad for them, not for you. Aww, I wish I could just jump through the screen and give you a massive hug. 

Post # 4
2340 posts
Buzzing bee

Im sooo sorry. unfortunately family is the source of pain and hurt. while love is supposed to be a given…..sometimes they hurt us the most. all i can advise u to do is move on. its their lose and they will regret it forever. how incredibly selfish of them….putting animalsbefore u….their daughter. i guess they won’t be winning the parents of the yr award. i say fuck them….be happy…don’t let them see how much hurt they r putting u thru.

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