(Closed) What to do with young flower girls and ring bearer?

posted 6 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
46411 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

The little girls are probably old enough to stand with the bridal party. I would make it their choce.

The ring bearer most assuredly will be happier seated with his parents. You could have one of the wedding party escort him to his parents after you arrive at the altar area.

Post # 4
5093 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

We had ours go sit with their parents (who were all in the second row and waiting for them).

Post # 5
1599 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I would suggest that they sit with their parents. Just make sure they are in a row/pew closer to the front so the little ones can find them quickly!

I was also at a wedding where the flower girls (ages 4 and 6ish) sat on the top step of the altar in front of the bridesmaids. One of the BMs had a small bag of gummy bears hidden in her bouqet and she passed the little girls a candy every minute or so to keep them occupied and quiet! The only thing anyone noticed was how quiet the little ones were becaues of course they were focused on the bride and groom! lol


Post # 6
5547 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2011

Our ring bearer was 13 months old and we just had his mom sitting on the second row and he went and sat with her.

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