(Closed) What to do

posted 9 years ago in Flowers
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

hmm…well you could:

(1) just be straightforward and honest with her. let her know you’re working out the budget and just wanted to double check which flower arrangements, if any, she will be doing (keep it neutral so she doesnt think youre suggesting she should do more or less…). let her know you appreciate her help and think she would create some great designs. i think thats a perfectly understandable – its your wedding, you have to plan things! unless she is completely unreasonable, the question shouldnt be a huge surpirse.

or you could get your Fiance involved. he could do the asking and act like the two of you are finalizing the budget together. that could cause more friction if she sees through it, but it would avoid a confrontation.

Post # 4
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337 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Just ask her nicely if she still wanted to do the flowers and if not, no big deal, you are just trying to figure out the budget. No one would go that crazy over that.

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