What to expect without condom?

posted 10 months ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
5189 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: July 2018

This is the creepiest post I’ve seen in a while.

Post # 3
990 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

zzar45 :  Why?

Post # 4
386 posts
Helper bee

 A lot of questions! Every BODY is different so you literally have to try it for yourself. Tip: the first time, wait until you don’t need to go anywhere afterwards and have a towel handy.

Also, don’t use a tampon unless you’re on your period.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

I normally just kind of push it out onto a wipe. He always gets me a couple after sex, so I just wipe it up. No biggy. There might be a little bit that makes its way into my panties later, but I don’t really care. Using a pad or tampon is definitely overkill. 

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

Just go pee right after, it should almost all come out. Don’t stick a tampon up there. That will just keep it inside you, which could increase your chance of getting a UTI. 

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2419 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2016


Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I have an IUD, so we never use condoms unless I’m on an antibiotic (just to be safe). The…uh…aftermath is really no big deal. I always go pee immediately after to ward off a UTI, and I rinse off in the shower to take care of the worst of it. The shower may be excessive for most people, but I like it. Sometimes I have to change undies an hour or two later, but you can wear a pantyliner to get around it. I would just rather change undies than spend money on disposable liners. Do NOT use a tampon, like other PPs have said, unless you’re on your period.

Just give it a try when you’re not planning on going anywhere after sex. It’s really not bad at all, and hubby and I much prefer the feel of not using condoms. 

Post # 9
232 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

I wipe immediately after and then go pee anyway to prevent a UTI and most of it comes out then. No biggie.

Post # 10
9663 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

Pee after.

Post # 11
8769 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

jenna123 :  It’s good practice to always try to pee shortly after sex because it helps rinse away bacteria and other stuff that could cause infections. That’s the perfect time to clean up the rest too. If you don’t want to jump up and run to the bathroom right away, just have a towel, some kleenex, baby wipes, etc. to get the goo. There’s only about a teaspoon of fluid, so it’s not much. Pantiliners are fine but tampons is a horrible idea. I can’t believe someone would even suggest that. Tampons should only ever be used for periods.

Post # 12
183 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Always pee immediately after sex, most of it will come out then. 

Post # 13
726 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2017

I mean, it does feel kind of gross cause you can feel it drip out,  but I just pee immediately after and most of it seems to come out then. 

Post # 14
2485 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

I don’t think it feels gross. It basically all comes out once you sit and let it drip out. If you squeeze your kegals you can feel it come out and then just wipe until it’s not wet. I’ve never had globs of it in my underwear after sitting on the toilet letting it come out and wiping. Darling Husband and I did it for 3 years and have been using pullout for 1 year so it’s been a while but definitely not bad to me.

Post # 15
3114 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2016 - Surfer\'s Beach, Grand Cayman

Just wipe with some tissues and then go pee and most of it will be gone. Sometimes I wash up quickly in the shower if it’s too much. 

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