What to expect without condom?

posted 10 months ago in Intimacy
Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2019 - City, State

Like others have said; go pee after. I have to walk through the entire house to get to the washroom so Fiance will grab me a towel and I’ll do a quick wipe then push the rest out when I go pee (I’ll admit, most times I hold the towel between my legs while I walk to the bathroom lol). I’ve never had any on my underwear afterwards but a pantyliner should do the trick if you have that issue. I’ve heard that can happen when you orgasm at the same time, everything tightens and you may not be able to push it all out until everything relaxes back down but that hasn’t been my experience. Every body is different, you just have to figure out what’s right for you. 

Post # 17
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Go pee. Cough a little.

Totally depends on the guy too. Some are more…plentiful than others.

Post # 18
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

You’ll figure out how to manage it pretty quickly. You could always ask him to pull out if you’re weirded out by the body fluids. 

Post # 19
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

It’s not gross, it’s totally natural body fluids. What you feel is his penis tensing and relaxing when he does ejaculate which you can already feel with a condom anyway. It’s not like you are going to feel like someone’s pointing a hose up your vagina. Yes, it might drip out a bit on your walk to the bathroom but big deal. If you are in a healthy relationship it is physical proof that someone loves you enough to share themselves so closely with you. 

Post # 20
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Hubby and I exclusively use condoms but occasionally in the last few years we will sometimes go without during more safe times because we aren’t too phased if we end up pregnant. 

Have a towel close by to put between your legs and get up and do the sex waddle to the toilet as soon as you’re ready. Pee and push down and most should come out straight away. I seem to get a warm gush a few hours later so I wear a pantyliner in preparation as I don’t enjoy damp undies.

Also if your having bed sex, either put a towel down or make sure you do it on his side of the bed so you personally don’t have to sleep on a  small damp patch!! 😂 it never a big damp patch but I’m like the princess from the princess and the pea! I can feel wet patches instead of peas! 

Post # 21
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Bumble bee

jenna123 :  natural, not unclean. You’ll get used to it. I actually really like having unprotected sex and sperm inside. Tmi

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