(Closed) What to say to my FSIL – bridesmaid dilemma

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

It sounds like to me that she is worried about your expectations of her role in the wedding…maybe since she is so young she isn’t really aware of what a bridesmaid is suppose to do. I would talk to her and tell her that its not as big a deal as she might think it is, try to assure her that you and Fiance will be there to support her just as she is supporting you by being a part of your big day. I guess bridesmaids can get cold feet too!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

I’m confused. What day is your wedding?

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

So, you’re getting married on a Friday, I guess?  Is it possible for her to drive/fly across the state after classes that day and be there on time for the wedding?  If I remember my university days correctly, she probably doesn’t even know what class she has on a Friday 8 months from now…

What year is she in at school, and this may be a personal question, but how is she doing grades-wise?  It may be a case of just starting university and being overwhelmed with the idea of missing a class?  I know I was terrified of missing in first year, but by senior year knew the system a bit better.

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