(Closed) What to think about a bridesmaid buying gifts for the other bridesmaids

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

No you are not being a bridezilla. I can understand your frustration however, I’ll say let it be. This really isn’t that big a deal. She probably thought she was helping with your overall look. Call her and talk to her if this really bothers you that way you get to see things from her point of view. Hope this helps.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I’m left wondering:  Does the maid who bought the clutches EXPECT the other bm’s to carry them at your wedding? 

I think was just being nice and thought it would be a good idea, and I would probably just let her give them.  I would, however, tell her beforehand that you know for a fact they already made arrangements as far as what they were carrying for the wedding.  I would also ask her to give them to the other two maids when the jr. isn’t around.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I think there should be a third optin to your poll:

Don’t sweat the small stuff Wink

This is really not your issue, if you don’t mind what clutch they use. If the other girls like them, they will use them, and if they don’t the girl who bought them will return them or sell them on ebay.

Don’t forget the girl was just trying to be generous and contirbute, not rain on your parade.

Just take a deep breath and focus on something that makes you happy.

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