(Closed) What turns you off, or, what unusual things get you going?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I love to cuddle up and have my Fiance wrap his legs around my legs… but oh my god if he somehow rubs against my kneecaps I want to die and never have sex ever again.  Who the hell is grossed out by kneecaps? ugh I can’t think about it anymore.

I can’t think of any out of the ordinary turn ons at the moment, but I am sure I have them.  

 

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2011

I get really grossed out when men don’t have hair on their chest.  I would always feel like I was with a little boy and that would be the end of things right there.  Luckily Fiance has the perfect amount of chest hair.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I get turned on when he goes off on a tangent about something extremely random and nerdy – like building an island out of recycled plastic and running his own country, how a book should have ended, and building a spaceship in his backyard.  I also get turned on when he reads.  

Our main turn off is the cat trying to get involved.  He’ll snuggle up to my guy’s privates and start licking my man’s thigh if I’m touching him there, he’ll try to get between our chests, he’ll start licking my toes or wedge his tail between them (which makes me start giggling too much), he’ll play with my butt or thighs if my guy is doing so…  Why we can’t lock the damn cat out of the room, I have no idea.

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Meowkers: I am with you on the chest hair! My Fiance has these strange moments where he trims it to much and it grosses me out.

If he is a little smelly it turns me on. It’s like my nose assumes he just did something manly or fixed something and then I want him. LOL

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

My major turn on is when he kisses the back of my neck and down my back.

My major turn off is when he is sick and sniffly…uugghh grosses me out to be kissing and cuddling with someone with sick/cold symptons.

 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee

My major turn on is when he just gets out of the shower and smells oh so good.  I just wanna jump his bones right then and there.  My other major turn on which may sound strange to you all is when he bites me and it can be anywhere.  After that I’m so ready to go and sometimes he’ll do that just to tease me.  My major turns off is one trying to do something when you just woke up or in general and have bad breathe.  Another major turn off is when he hasn’t showered and his all stinky.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I hate having my ears kissed, touched, whatever. Gives me the shivers (in a bad way) just thinking about it.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I totally agree with those who said they don’t like the naked chest look. I HATE IT. I like my men as hairy as possible, seriously. Except for back hair. I can’t handle that.

Edited to add: I can’t stand having any of my tendons touched. Achilles, the one in my inner elbow, the ones behind my knees. It’s an immediate blue-balls card for FH.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

haha, I hate when my Fiance touches my toe nails!!!!!!! how random right? 

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I hate when we’re cuddling or sleeping and his toe nails will accidentally scratch my feet or legs. Also, when we were first living together, he would like to play footsie while eating dinner. This is fine with socks, but I really couldn’t do it while eating with no socks on, it just felt too weird.

Turn ons: I like his smell after he’s done a workout, he really doesn’t have a bad smelling body odor like I get (haha!). 

Seeing him with his wedding band, its the only jewelry he wears, very sexy:-)

I love that he doesn’t have a hairy chest:-)

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I get a little skeeved out when his cat is on the bed.  I love that kitty, but his purr sounds like a rumbly old diesel engine.  I’ll be “headed south” and the cat is laying there, purring and starting at me like “seriously, mom? I thought we were all comfortable here?”  Eventually, he’ll get up and leave, but until then, I’m always kind of uncomfortable.  What’s funny is that as soon as we’re done and cleaning up, he gets right back on the bed like “FINALLY!”  If my cat is on the bed, he just lays there like a rock so its easy to ignore him.  LOL!

I’m super turned on by SO’s sense of humor and intelligence.  Sometimes a round of banter and joke trading will get me SO randy!  And his tender kisses.  We kiss all the time, but when he lays one of those slow, tender kisses on me, or when he gently kisses my face, I melt.  <sigh!>

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@cyneswith: haha. “…the cat trying to get involved.”

I’m laughing so hard.

Yeah, the cat has to go when it’s mommy and daddy time.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Once I somehow got food on my finger, and as a joke everyone was like, “lick it off!”, and N did.

needless to say, I had to tell him never to do that in public again cause it was tooo nice 😛

Post # 16
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Helper bee

If I walk in a room and he is sleeping, then I get turned on.  I think it comes from when I was bartending while he was working days, so he was always asleep when I came home and that was the only time I had with him for the better part of the week.  He loves being woken up that way 🙂  I tease him that it is because he’s not being obnoxious when he is sleeping, so it makes me like him more then.  I also love when he dances with me in our living room for no reason or plays with me like a little kid.

 

Some mornings he rolls out of bed for work and forgets to brush his teeth (he doesn’t have a job where he interacts with other people much, luckily for them), but I hate it!

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