Post # 1
Share and did you get some helpful advise? 🙂
I def got some support and felt like I wasnt alone in my feelings about mom-zilla 😉
Hi Ladies, I’m a newbie, and reading the boards i found that I’m not alone in feeling like i am going to pull out my hair because of my mother!! I am was engaged in December, going to be married in June, and from the beginning my mom has been negative. My fiance and I hav been together for 6 years and he is a great guy, never had any problems with my parents. He asked my dads permission and everything.
We hav tried to do everything “right” by my mothers standards (we dont live together, finished school, he got out of the military, we both hav stable jobs and our own health insurance.). She is acting blind sided, like she had no idea that this was even coming. She seems to get mad if we make any decisions about the wedding without consulting her (we are paying for half), and she is jusy very negative about everything. When i tried to respectfully point it out to her, she denied it and said it was all on me and she would never act like that.
Everyone keeps asking me if planning my wedding is fun, and i keep wondering, is it supposed be, becuase all im looking forward to is the day after, when all this is over. I dont want to be bitter when i look back, but i really feel like my mom is ruining this for me. 🙁 The saddest part is all i want is for her be happy, and approve.. Iv already changed my cake, my guest list, the dj, almost the officiant, and basically my whole idea of an intimate, personal affair.
Read more: http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/mom-is-driving-me-crazyyy#ixzz2bxTVavFH
Post # 3
My first post was my “This is my dress” post. Everyone seemed to really love it and it made me feel really good about my choice 🙂
Post # 5
@Kandiss16: my first post was just a couple weeks ago 😉
Ok. So me and bf-soon-fi decided were going to have our wedding where i live, and at the church fellowship hall/reception there is a fire pit. there will undoubtely be kids and if we use it will it be too dangerous without adult supervision? I would never want a child hurt, but I love the idea of a fire. Plus it has meaning to me and bf. What do i do?
Post # 6
pretty sure i was bitching about my then boyfriend not wanting to propose. Lol i used a different account back then.
Meh, he proposed a year later and i stopped being a crazy biatch.
Post # 7
I was trying to figure out transportation! (We hired a towncar, BTW!)
Post # 8
I posted my menu and asked for others to post theirs over on the food board. I just love reading what people are serving.
Post # 9
@Kandiss16: I think mine was a DIY post.
Post # 10
Mine was about fitness. Go friggin figure, I’m a workout junkie.
Post # 11
Apparently mine was about infertilty. Not surprising since I joined right around the time I had my first appointment about possible interfility and scheduled a surgery.
Btw, it’s funny to me that I have 349820493243 posts, but I only have 4 pages of started threads. I’ve been here off and on since 2010! Yikes.
Post # 12
Mine was about what the Bees considered part of having a healthy, lasting relationship. I posted before under a different name, and have NO idea what my initial post was about. It was probably my engagement story. I’ve been on the Bee since late 2011.
Post # 13
It was about food for our reception.
Post # 14
Why my dress, of course! 😉
Post # 15
mine was asking about what the sins wereof your Boyfriend or Best Friend going to propose.. typical anxious waiting bee style! just over a year later and i am half way through our engagement already!
I always want to go to the waiting board and give all the girls a big hug and tell them to smile, enjoy, be patient, and that TIME FLIES!!!!!
Post # 16
my dress. i posted looking for a dress twin. i didn’t have one 🙁 no replies.