My worst date ever would have to be the date that never quite actually became a date.
Basically I was talking to this guy off of POF. Things were going well, the conversation was great, we had a lot in common. I gave him my number and we had amazing conversations through text.
Things were going well so we decided to meet. I was talking to him for a couple weeks before we finally decided to meet. I was very hopeful and excited when I was getting ready to meet him. Anyway we agreed on a meeting spot, so there I was waiting at the spot. The time that we had mutually agreed upon came and went, patiently I waited.
I gave him 10 minutes, if he didn’t show up, that was it. Luckily it wasn’t far from where I lived (across the street) so i wasn’t wasting too much of my time.
About 5 minutes in I see a car drive by, then circle back, park. Then a guy gets out who kind of looks like the guy. He takes his time, but sends a text message almost 10 minutes in saying here’s here and he sees me. I see where he is and start walking towards him, he lights a cigarette. We meet 100 feet from where the meeting place was, and he takes a puff of his cigarette and blows it in my face (I kid you not!)
Unamused I take a few steps back, hoping that it was just a mistake. Then he proceeds to tell me that he was here earlier, saw me and went to go home but decided to be a ‘decent person’ and tell me face to face that I was not his type by the looks of me. I was in shock, after all the great conversations we had, he never mentioned that body weight would be an issue.
In all fairness, I’m a size 18, but I wear it well (I’ve been told this by many people). I admitted to being plus size on my profile and even had different pictures up. But he says that “I am not at all what I said I was”. And proceeds to tell me he was expecting someone 100lbs thinner and more athletic and shorter. Then says he didn’t want to waste my time, wishes me well, then turns and walks away.
That was my worst date! Hopefully the worst forever lol!