(Closed) what wet wrong on wedding day

posted 7 years ago in Recaps
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@rlsh86: two of your bridesmaids didn’t show up!? WTF!? Were they close friends? I couldn’t even imagine any of my girls just not showing up! I’m sorry things didn’t go smoothly, but you are married so yay!!! Right? ^_^

Post # 5
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7300 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@rlsh86: Did something happen? Was it the weather? That’s just crazy to me! 

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

That’s awful!!!  Did they get the date wrong or something? I can’t imagine not showing up to a wedding I WAS IN, unless I was in a car accident or there was some kind of terrible emergency.  I’m so sorry. I hope you were able to have a good time anyway. But you’re within your rights to be hurt and angry.

Post # 8
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10288 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

@rlsh86: Wow, you’re much nicer than I am. If 2 of my bridesmaids didn’t show up, you best believe there would be no forgiveness from this chick. Unless there is a death in the family, a natural disaster or they come down with the plague the morning of, they best be there with bells on!

Post # 9
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@rlsh86: I just noticed you were in FL. I glanced at your date and thought the 11 was IL. Wow. I just can’t believe that. I would be ready for a fight! 

Post # 11
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606 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

um, that is not ok.  i would be really upset, and I think those girls should know not that just not showing up is rude, disprectful, and hurtful.  i’m so sorry that happened to you.

Post # 12
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1893 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

This just sounds so….weird.  When did you ask them to be bridesmaids?  It’s quite odd to ask someone to be a bridesmaid and then not speak to them at all up until the very day of the wedding.  I mean, didn’t you guys discuss dresses, the shower, bachelorette…anything? 

Something just doesn’t sound right here.  Was this a thrown together at the last minute type of wedding?

Post # 13
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Newbee
  • Wedding: February 2010

OMG! You’ve got to be kidding?  That is horrible – and terrifying considering that my date is less than two weeks away – and due to family illness it has been hastily thrown together…  Even so, I would be hurt beyond belief if someone didn’t show up, much less a bridesmaid.  I’m not sure if I would hold this over their heads for the rest of their lives or just sever ties completely… I would NOT be nice!  So so sorry that happened to you!

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

@lezlers: i think she means they hadn’t spoken since the wedding….i read it like you did and was also super confused.  this all seems so strange.

Post # 15
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63 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

My SO was asked to be a best man at a wedding (while he was in the hospital with a serious brain injury) This was almost two years ago. I answered on his behalf and said of course he will be your best man! This was a VERY stressful time when we didn’t even know if he would be able to ever feed himself again let alone participate in a wedding. my SO made a full recovery although it was a trying year. We never heard from this couple again until I RSVP we couldn’t make it. Pretty crappy of me to RSVP less then three weeks before, but we had a billion weddings that summer, and just couldn’t afford all of them.We rsvp with regret. Sure enough, we found out he was suppose to be the best man and they had to scramble to find a replacement. Although his replacement apparently did the most amazing job and gave a great speech that people still talk about. So given that my SO is TERRIFIED of speaking in public, it was a win win. Seriously, as the bride or groom you NEED to stay on top of people and organize them, keep them informed and updated!! It’s your wedding after all! 

Post # 16
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1166 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Seriously – two of your BMs didn’t show up on the day of your wedding, you have no idea why and you haven’t heard from them since? And you’ve already forgiven them?

Pat yourself on the back, girl – you’re a better person than me (and most, I dare say). Then go find yourself some REAL friends.

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