What will you do if he doesn't meet your timeline?

posted 2 years ago in Waiting
Post # 16
3118 posts
Sugar bee

llevinso :   becks90 : 


This is my question as well. Emotionally, it would be hard, but you would survive. 

Financially or otherwise, why wouldn’t you be able to?

Post # 17
2713 posts
Sugar bee

So he lied about paying off the ring.I would accept that excuse if you had medical bills, car trouble or something similar.

Otherwise, I’d be giving him major side eye.  And maybe reconsider the relationship.


Post # 18
2011 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

You just posted that you don’t have the ability to walk. If that’s the truth, your bf probably knows it by this point. In fact, he’s betting on it. If you’re going to establish a timeline, you have to stick to it, or else you can’t really expect him to. 

Post # 20
5863 posts
Bee Keeper

becks90 :  I don’t usually like to say this because I don’t want to give false hope to waiting Bees if I’m wrong- but in your case I really have the feeling that you’ll have a happy update for us in the near future.

Waiting sucks, and it seems so unnecesarily dragged out when both partners have talked marriage etc but the guy goes old-school wanting to be the one to propose, wanting it to be a surprise (lol can’t say that without an eyeroll), procrastinates with the ring buying or the proposal of the planning etc. But it can still go well. When Darling Husband proposed (finally!!!) it was still special and he was so totally on board hands-on with the wedding planning that I never doubted how much he wanted to get married too. And he’s a really good husband. I’m not saying this to brag but to hopefully reassure you that it can all turn out well despite waiting angst and b.s. and in your situation I really think it will 🙂

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