(Closed) What would the perfect bridesmaid gift be?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2143 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015


Post # 4
2104 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m paying for my girls to get massages the weekend of the wedding because it was something I knew I’d want if I were one of them  =o)

Post # 5
382 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Something cute and personal for each one.  A framed picture of you and the maid?  A bottle of wine that you two always drink when you’re together? 

When in doubt, there’s always Coach clutches 🙂

Post # 6
77 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

i am gettng mine robes, massages, and paying for their makeup to get done! plus some small things to put in a bag for them!


Post # 7
200 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I just had my sister, and I got her a sentimental gift and paid for her wedding makeup. As a bridesmaid, I’d love to have the bride to pay for my hair and/or makeup… trying to make yourself look photo-worthy is STRESSFUL!

Post # 8
1382 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I wanted my friends and family to not feel like it’s a burden to be my Bridesmaid or Best Man, so I made everything entirely easy for them.

Aside from providing the (relatively inexpensive) Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses for them, I’m providing hair/makeup services for them.. and their little gift will be these Tory Burch smart phone wallets.. (My friend has the hookup for me to get each at 40% off retail price)




Post # 9
2295 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Mine isn’t “perfect,” but I’m happy with what I’m getting them. I am getting them:

– A tote bag with a cute pattern and their initials on it (really just to hold everything else, not a major part of the gift)

– A custom-made lightweight floral robe to wear while we get ready and then they’ll have it afterwards. It is being custom sewn to their height & size (two will be pregnant), nothing that says “Bridesmaid” or anything like that.

– A Camelbak waterbottle (I love these things and all my ladies use them too, but it’s always nice to get a new one because they get gross over the years)

– A book I picked out individually for each of them (kind of fun/light reading, but novels)

– I’ll probably put some snacks in the bag too for the weekend, some candy but also some healthy stuff.

I am also paying for their hair and makeup to be done, but I don’t consider that part of the gift. I am also trying to work out a trade with the seamstress that is doing their dresses so all they have to pay for is the cost of the materials ($60).

Post # 10
240 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Lush, love it so much but not all girls do. Maybe vouchers to see a movie, spa day or starbucks card.

Post # 11
289 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

In the wedding I was just in we got white sapphire earrings, lotion and candles. It was very nice1

Post # 12
1835 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012 - Oak Tree Manor

I would love something that I could use again after the wedding. I take reusable tote bags to the grocery store to save bags, so I always love getting canvas tote bags as gifts. I also love nail polish, I would love to get a manicure set or something girly like that. Honestly though, I think the best gift ever is a really sweet handwritten card that i can reread when I’m having a bad day or when I’m feeling nostalgic.

Post # 13
345 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I would do something sweet, something sparkly, something smart, something serious. : )

Sweet – favourite candy or lovely little pastries

Sparkly – a piece of jewelry for the wedding day

Smart – a book tailored to their personality

Serious – a letter telling them how much they mean to you.

I am SO cheesy.

Post # 14
8453 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

I’m stuffing my girls wristlets with gift cards (Sephora and VS).  I’m also giving my girls jewelry (earrings) that are gifted in a macaron coin purse; I did these all DIY so it only cost about $5 per friend.

Post # 15
4336 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

It’s hard. I don’t even really like people buying presents for me in general b/c I rarely like what they pick out. 🙁 

IF it were my “style,” I like jewelry, scarves, cute little purse, basically anything “girly” like nail polish and lip gloss. Gift certificates to restaurants are always nice too.

Post # 16
149 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Hair and makeup is the best gift because the girls will want to look pretty too they are standing up there w you after all 🙂 and it gets pricy. If i were the bridesmaid I’d prob think “stuff” is nice ie personalized makeup bag etc but I’d much rather have h+m paid for so I don’t have to spend the money myself 

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