(Closed) What would you do?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: What should I do?
    Send something small (ideas please!) : (7 votes)
    24 %
    Have flowers delivered : (2 votes)
    7 %
    Send a nice card : (10 votes)
    34 %
    Do nothing, I've already RSVP'd : (10 votes)
    34 %
  • Post # 2
    Member
    2613 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    It seems like you don’t really want to send anything. In that case, don’t do it.

    Post # 3
    Member
    1896 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    It’s not tit for tat. I say send something some. Be the bigger person.

    Post # 4
    Member
    1981 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    If you are attending the wedding, and money is tight as a grad student, then I would concentrate on getting her a very nice wedding gift. 

    Post # 5
    Member
    1168 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    AllieBee12:  I would not send a shower gift for a shower you aren’t attending. I would just buy a wedding gift.

    Post # 6
    Member
    3028 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

    I wouldn’t send anything for the shower– possibly a card but certainly not a present. You’ll give her a nice gift for the wedding.

    Post # 8
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    5707 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Don’t send anything.  As far as I know, it’s nto traditional to send a gift to a shower if you aren’t attending.  I’d only do that for an actual wedding.

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