(Closed) What would you do??

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Would you be upset?
    Yes : (44 votes)
    61 %
    No : (28 votes)
    39 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1403 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I wouldn’t be upset, but my shoes are silver.  If they were white, I might ask the Maid/Matron of Honor why she wants to wear white to my wedding.  😉  All my BM’s dresses are floor length anyway, so it’s not like anyone will see their shoes.

    Post # 4
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    14186 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    I wouldn’t have cared, but that’s me. Shoes are waaaay at the bottom of my list.

    Post # 5
    Member
    806 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I agree w/ you, I wouldn’t want someone else wearing “my” shoes at my wedding.  Especially if you took a lot of care in picking them out and if they are somewhat unique.

    But I wouldn’t be that upset or mad at her if she takes no for an answer and moves on – we’re talking about shoes here.  Not really a big deal in the grand scheme of things.

    Post # 7
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    14186 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    That is weird

    Post # 8
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    2201 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Okay – combining the two of those incidents, yeah i think I’d be upset.

    Post # 8
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    2207 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    My sister and I purposely bought the same shoes for my wedding, so it wouldnt bother me.  But I can see how it would be irritating if you werent planning on it

    Post # 9
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    4001 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Ok, the shoes thing is a little wierd.  I probably wouldn’t love the idea either but I wouldn’t let it get to me too much.  The dress thing, makes it sound like she’s a lil bit envious.  Try to be patient, she may have no clue how strange this all seems.

    Post # 11
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    388 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    I am not sure I would be upset exactly, but definitely annoyed.  It seems pretty clueless.

    Post # 12
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    2207 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    yikes I just saw the post about the wedding dress.  THAT is definitely bizarre.   Sounds like she is jealous.  Id avoid conversations with her about it if you can…

    Post # 13
    Hostess
    18643 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    Hmm the dress thing is sort of strange.  Before I read about that, I wouldn’t have really cared about the shoes since you probably wouldn’t have seen both in the same pictures.

    Post # 14
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    103 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    ummmmm…..WTF??? does she want to wear a white dress, too?  sounds like your Maid/Matron of Honor may have a little secret inner competition going on with you.  if your Maid/Matron of Honor can’t just let you have your day, and have everything that is yours be just yours, then she clearly doesn’t know what being a Maid/Matron of Honor is all about.

    Post # 15
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    204 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Why is she your Maid/Matron of Honor again?

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