(Closed) What would you do?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
1765 posts
Buzzing bee

It sounds like you love him for who he is!  My guy could care less about fashion too.  I don’t mind.  Ya know unless his dressing himself is a real faux paux -like the couple of scenarios you gave, then I think, he’s a grown man and can make his own choices!  But if you’d like him to wear something different, I wouldn’t say anything, cause your not his mama, but if something bothers you, I’d make a point of shopping with him and telling him “Oh, I think you would look sexy wearing ____, or  I think that would look great on you.  Or, doesn’t this look comfortable.  Or your out shopping with him, and say I’ve got to go pick up __would you like to pick up some new underwear?

Post # 4
1103 posts
Bumble bee

I think you sound like you guys have a perfect balance. You adore his quirks and he adores yours, which is exactly the way it should be! If you’d like to see him in some underwear that shows off his assets (and that’s the way I’d put it to him!) maybe you could buy him some nice boxers as part of his next birthday/Xmas gift, or next time you get yourself some. As long as you are preventing him from going to work or a special occasion looking really stupid, I think you are doing your job. I wouldn’t worry so much about casual stuff, provided he’s comfortable with it all. I don’t understand women who stress about their partners’ dress – I once watched my friend make her husband take his jeans off so she could iron them when he was on his way out. She thinks it reflects badly on her, even though she wasn’t going with him – um no. You are just creating work and stress for yourself, and he’s getting annoyed with you. No one wins! Tell your friends to back off and find their own husband to dress 🙂

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