(Closed) What would you do?

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

Personally after all you have gone through if I was going to not have any further contact I would not send a card.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I would not send a card

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Nor would I.

Post # 7
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Helper bee

I agree, no card necessary. That would give the impression that you want to patch things up.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I agree with the other bees, but I would say talk to your hubby, see how he feels.  It may be too soon or he may want to.  It’s nice that the two of you have agreed on how to handle this, too often than not its not like this.  I say you are the biger and better person if you decide to send a card with both your names.  You dont have to make it personal, just sign your names.

Having been there where the inlaws didnt like me because I was not from their culture, I know how hard it is to bee there.  I say you are right in either way, as long as you are comfortable with your decision, and both make it together.  Hope this all smooths out with time, its really horrible living with such anomosity in a family.  Good luck!

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