(Closed) what would you do..

posted 8 years ago in Money
Post # 3
Member
2271 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Are you kidding me? I would jump at the chance!

Post # 4
Hostess
18637 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I would probably consider doing it as long as they are the type of people who gives gifts without expecting things in return.  I would expect that the time wouldn’t be all about you two though since they are having their vows renewed at the same time.

Post # 5
Member
6597 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

I would go for it – sounds amazing!

Post # 6
Member
1088 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

What holds you back? Feel guilty? It seems fun to me. 🙂

Post # 8
Member
1088 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@sweetlikcake: That’s nice of you. Sometimes I think you have to know the difference between a genuine offer and people genuinely wanting to help you, vs. someone who just offers because they feel they have to. If they really like you and really want to help you with no strings attached, why not accept? I think sometimes we need to recognize the blessings that come our way :0 That is, if you can find a way to be comfortable with it. Don’t let pride get in your way if it’s something you truly want, and something they truly want to give you.

Post # 9
Member
1810 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

@DanielleZara: I totally agree with you and couldn’t have said it better.

Post # 10
Member
1166 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

You didn’t answer one very important question: Is that how you want to get married? Or would you be disappointed that, for example, you weren’t surrounded by your closest friends and family, or that the day wasn’t entirely about you? I would make sure that’s what you really want before accepting. But if the offer is genuine, and it would make you happy, then go for it.

The topic ‘what would you do..’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors