(Closed) What would you do?

posted 8 years ago in Ceremony
  • poll: What type of wedding would you do?
    Normal wedding - deal with the attitude for the sake of including everyone in the ceremony : (4 votes)
    50 %
    Small ceremony and brunch receptions : (3 votes)
    38 %
    Courthouse - skip both the attitude and the celebrations : (1 votes)
    13 %
  • Post # 3
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    3526 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    What do YOU and FIANCE want to do? Can afford to do so that you don’t have to feel like you need to do what your mom wants?

    Regardless of what is expected of you?

    Post # 5
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    174 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    @cyneswith:

    Hi – I am so sorry you’re going through this! I read your post, and what sticks out to me is that you can not win with your mother. I think it’s just awful that that’s the way she’s reacting to your wedding. I wish for you that you can find some way to protect yourself from this (her hurtful comments, at least) while at the same time keeping that relationship with your mother. It seems so hard and it doesn’t have to be. My heart goes out to you.

    Post # 6
    Member
    767 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    If it were me and I had the money (which I think you said you did…) I would get married, just the two of us in some exotic destination. Like in Paris or the Caribbean or something. Then I might have a party/reception back home. 

    It would bother me too much to go through with the traditional hometown wedding if my mom were going to be that negative the whole time. 

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