(Closed) What would you do?

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
458 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I was put into a somewhat similar situation when I got engaged.  One of my childhood friends was less than ecstatic that I was getting married. However, I knew this was sort of stemming from jealousy since our group of friends always joked that she would be the first to get married, and she wasn’t.  (Although two months after I got engaged, her boyfriend proposed and now she’s getting married 3 months before me.)  Although I wanted her to be in the wedding, her reaction made me take pause.  After a few days to let everything calm down, I called her and explained to her that I wanted her there, but that bridesmaids stand up there with you in support of you, and if she didn’t think she could do that honestly, I understood.  She ended up coming around.  I would just talk to you friend, but at the end of the day, you don’t want someone up there with you who doesn’t want to be there.

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