(Closed) What Would You Do?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: What Would You Do?
    I would have invited her in the first place just to keep the peace : (1 votes)
    4 %
    I would be grateful I didn't invite her given how she behaves towards you. : (10 votes)
    36 %
    Stuff her. Invite her workmates and see what she has to say! : (4 votes)
    14 %
    Just Ignore her. Don't send any more work invites and get on with it : (13 votes)
    46 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    251 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    You did the right thing by not inviting her. From what you said regarding her behaviour towards you before the invites were sent out, she does not deserve to be part of such an important occasion in your life. You could only invite so many and needed to determine who you had the best relationships with. I believe that such events must be shared with people who truly care about YOU. Maybe this whole incident is a good thing because now you know that had you invited her, you would have been sitting with a guest at one of thee most important days of your life, that doesn’t even like you. She sounds like the type who would probably just look for negative things to say about the day. 

    Regarding the situation in the office – I think you should just continue to be courteous to her  but keep the relationship on a strictly professional basis. If she doesn’t like you, then she is not worth talking to on a personal level anyway. 

    If you are on good terms with the two workmates then you should have invited them. To do so now might come across as spiting her and you do not want her to think you are still going to be part of her little tantrum. But, if you REALLY do want them there, then maybe you should.

    Post # 4
    Member
    1571 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    She sounds like a dream to work with! So professional!

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