(Closed) What would you do?

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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1235 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@Bellboo24:  Shes probably hurt that you didnt reschedule your shoot to have her be your makeup artist. Shes acting irrationally, just give her time to cool down.

Post # 5
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46465 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I don’t think she is hurt that you didn’t reschedule. I think she is embarassed that because of your post, your friends know that she didn’t make herself available to you.

Send her an email saying that you would like her to  accompany you and your cousin and ask her what time would be best for her.

Post # 6
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7606 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

@Bellboo24: You said she’s furious, but I’m just wondering – has she said anything to you directly yet?  Maybe I’m out on a limb here, but is there any way she’s not actually mad at you?  You said she’s ignoring you and you’ve gotten no responses from her….is there any way she just literally went out and forgot her phone at home or something and isn’t mad at all?

Post # 9
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7606 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

@Bellboo24: Ahh, ok.  Just checking to be sure.

I would just give her some time to cool down.  Shoot her a text apologizing if her feelings are hurt.  I’d take the post down off fb, too.  Oh, and invite her to the dress appointment – she will hopefully be over this by then!

I’m not saying that you did anything wrong, but for this situation it just sounds easier to keep the peace than to escalate it, you know?  Good luck with her.  🙂

Post # 10
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313 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

For now, forget the drama. The goal is to look beautiful tomorrow for photos that will last a lifetime. This drama will last maybe a day or two. Big woop!

I had my makeup done at the MAC counter (I’ve done this several times before) and absolutely LOVE LOVE LOVE the way it came out. All you have to do is make sure you make an appointment and buy something that you will use again or for touchups. It’s simple and you won’t be all stressed out rubbing your eyes raw from starting over a million times.

Relax and have fun with your shoot!

 

Post # 12
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384 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

drama! i think that you are totally in the right!!! why on earth would she be upset over not being able to do your makeup??!!!! unless there is more to the story…

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