- 6 years ago
- Wedding: April 2012
I wrote about this in a previous post, but here is a brief background. My dad and mom are currently not on good terms with my aunt and uncle (dad brother). My dad and his brother work together and there has been a lot of tension between lately. My mom and my aunt, who used to be very close- have not spoken since November. My aunt and uncle are very selfish people, we have always put up with it, but there selfishness has gotten to an all time high, causing more tension than ever between the families.
I orginolally had my aunt and uncle sitting at a table with my parents at the wedding because not having them sit with the rest of the family would just cause more problems. My parents were fine with it and said “we will suck it up and promise there wont be any drama.” Well yesterday my dad and uncle had a huge fight and I just do not feel comfortable having them sit together anymore. Its worrying me that there will be “bad blood” at my wedding and I just do not want that stress. So I want to move them to a different table. I feel like I shouldnt be worrying about my parents and aunt and uncle sitting together on my wedding day-so moving them seems like the best thing. At this point I really dont care if my aunt and uncle are upset they arent sitting with the other family (they will now be sitting with there kids).
Thank you for reading this. I guess this is just a really long vent-I am a week away from my wedding and I do not need this added stress. Do you bees think moving them is the right thing?