(Closed) What would you do?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

If she can’t go, she can’t go.  I woudn’t complain about that per se.

However, I would strongly recommend that she dump her distrusting control freak of a new boyfriend.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I agree with your perspective but I think you are more likely to get through to her if you make this about his unreasonableness rather than about your bach party.  In the long run he could affect a lot more about your friendship than your bach party.  Try to be the bigger person since this is not about you even though it affects you.

Post # 6
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I can understand that you are frustrated.  I would be pissed, too.  But, you are in a good relationship with a man who trusts you.  Unfortunately, she is in (what sounds like) a horrible relationship.  Though she should kick this A$$WIPE to the curb, you can’t say such to her.  Hopefully she will figure it out.  Perhaps a better way to come about this is to tell her it’s ok, but that once this boyfriend is gone she will be left with hard and bitter feelings about the fact that she missed one of the biggest most fun parties of her long-time best friend.  It is ALL her loss.  Not easy to come to terms with for you, but I feel more sorry for your friend.  Truly.  And, I’m sorry this is happening to you when you should be having the time of your life right now!  🙂

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2012

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