- Mrs. Tea
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: October 2009
I have a HUGE Dilema. I’m getting married next week and of course I am extremely busy with work, wedding, and house shopping, and moving to a temporary home..eeeeeeekklkk. I know.
One of my bridesmaids sent me a text message at 3:00 pm while I was at work. Mind you, I’m extremely busy and in meeting ALL the time! My bridesmaid knows this very well. She was sending me a text regarding her bridesmaid dress. I noticed her text message once I was OUT of work at around 6 pm. At that time she sent me another text message saying the following: “I understand u must be INCREDIBLY busy, but I need info on the dress lady…u can call me back or keep ignoring my phone calls”.
I read this and was enraged…didn’t she just finish saying that she “understands” how busy I am? Why would she assume I was ignoring her calls?
As an FYI. she doesn’t work and has NEVER worked a day in her life as she is married to someone with money. (She is also a free lance makeup artist)
I sent her a text back with the following: “One please don’t piss me off by making those smart remarks and TWO you wouldn’t make them if you really understood how busy I really am and I can’t answer ur text message the milli second that you send it….I just got out of work and I’ve been busy all day…here is the seamstress’ number….”
Another FYI she is ALWAYS on the phone and she has it attached to her hip! And once again SHE DOES NOT WORK. Since she is a makeup artist, she offered to do my makeup on my wedding day.
She replies with the following…
“Piss u off.! YOU need to learn to be on top of this %^&*…and if anything don’t piss me off. Cuz you will be left without a makeup artist or a bridesmaid. I don’t need to be stressing over a $%^&*()# dress anyway”.
I simply replied to her ignorant statement by saying. “I’m going to pretend you didn’t say that”.
Ladies, bride to be’s….What would you do?
I’m still enraged by her comment. I’ve known her for over 8 years and she is known for having a selfish strong opinionated personality. She doesn’t have ANY girlfriends (as you can see why). I really don’t want such a negative and cady persont to be part of my wedding or nonetheless touching my face.
Thank you for hearing me out.