(Closed) What would you do? Are we being unreasonable??

posted 9 years ago in Family
  • poll: Would you let them come

    yes.

    No.

    other Ill explain.

  • Post # 44
    Member
    487 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Hmm…I’m in 2 minds here. Whilst I think it should be your choice whether you have kids at the wedding or not and that everyone should respect that…it does make it a little more difficult when they’re your fiance’s siblings.

    I would definitely say stick to your guns when it comes to everyone elses kids, but possibly consider making an allowance for the siblings, even if it’s only the ceremony or only the reception just to keep the peace within the family. However if it is your fiance who has chosen not to have his siblings there then he needs to make it clear that it is his decision and not yours and therefore handle any drama that stems from this.

    Post # 45
    Member
    7367 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    Well clearly this was your FH idea and not the OP’s. He knows his family better than she does. So if he is ambivelent thats all I need to know. No they can’t come. He handles it with Future Mother-In-Law.

    Any udpates?

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