(Closed) What Would You Do? : Co-Workers Edition

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

ugh so awkward! thats a tough one as they are all coworkers, but since your FI doesnt care about them, i say just dont invite them and dont talk about the wedding with them. if they ask again, FI can just give the standard “siz of the venue” excuse and move on!

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

It’s so much easier if you are able to give a straight answer the first time a subject is raised.

It saves all that awkwardness later.

“We are having an intimate wedding and likely won’t be able to extend an invitation to everyone we would like to have celebrate wuth us.”

Post # 5
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5773 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

Well good news is theres no way they can all take off at once. Just invite who you consider friends, their rudeness should not pressure you into inviting them.

Post # 6
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584 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

just say with the budget, size of venue and things liek that, you were on able to invite them. Maybe say ud like to have dinner and drinks shortly after the weddign to celebrate

Post # 7
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805 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@julies1949:  “We are having an intimate wedding and likely won’t be able to extend an invitation to everyone we would like to have celebrate wuth us.”

Perfect response.

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