(Closed) What would you do? Diamond, CZ or amora?

posted 6 years ago in Rings
  • poll: What would you do?

    Keep the diamond and enjoy it! No need to feel guilty...

    Ask if he can return the diamond and keep wearing the CZ you have

    Ask if he can return the diamond and look into the amora gem

  • Post # 2
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    Blushing bee

    If he’s already purchased it, just accept it and enjoy it. Diamonds are expensive, but if it’s your forever stone, I say don’t stress it. I don’t know about your husband, but I know a lot of men pride themselves on providing the perfect gem for their SO and if you show any kind of apprehensiveness, it could upset him..

    Post # 3
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    Worker bee

    I’d keep the diamond! But if you are worried about anything ever happening to it maybe get another CZ or amora (I have an amora bc a diamond was out of our price range after I got an amazing band and i FREAKING LOVE IT!) and put it in another ring to wear on vacay or something? I’d definitely keep the diamond, it’ll last longer than any stone

    Post # 4
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    Bumble bee

    I love my AG :), but to be honest,you should keep the ring.

    The diamond is important not because it’s a diamond, but because he put forth thoughts (he remembered he promised you the upgrade kudos!), he put effort (he shopped around for it), and he put time and money on it (as it would have cost more). 

    I would be accepting and thankful for a thoughtful husband.  If and when you’re in doubt, let him know that the gift is ever more meaningful because of the man behind it. 🙂  Share photos when you can!

    Post # 5
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2016

    I say keep the diamond. The CZ will become cloudy over time and not be as durable. 

    Post # 6
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    Bumble bee

    Keep the diamond! Your husband wanted you to have it, so try to stop worrying and enjoy it. It sounds beautiful! 

    Post # 7
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2017

    Keep the diamond and enjoy it!!  It is not like this is throwing your financial stability out the window and plunging you into debt.  Your husband went out of his way to get you a lovely gift.  Wear it in good health!

    Post # 8
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    Your husband brought you the diamond and likely put a lot of time and effort into choosing it so I say you should keep it

    Post # 9
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    You could also consider a lab created diamond. They’re cheaper than mined but have the same chemical structure as mined diamonds. They have inclusions, color grades, etc and are graded. One company I’m aware of is Gemesis. If we weren’t using a heirloom stone, I would definitely be getting a lab diamond. 

    Post # 10
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2015

    Aww, your hubby is so sweet!! Keep the ring, he got it for you. You can always get Amora RHR:-) 

    Post # 11
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    Busy bee

    Keep the diamond, he’s bought it now. Its your forever, hubby is lovely for getting it and you guys sound financially secure, Enjoy it for what it is 🙂

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