(Closed) What would you do if the Bride wants to drop one of the groomsmen….

posted 3 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 2
1162 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Besides dumping the bride?

Post # 3
852 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

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karen12 :  Pretty much! Looks like bride is showing her true colours – better now than after the wedding. There’s still time!!

Yeah, it’s not the bride’s decision. Tough luck for the terrible and superficial bride. 

Post # 4
11375 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

Why is the groom marrying such a horrible person. Red flags all over.

Post # 5
13725 posts
Honey Beekeeper

ITA. If the groom is smart he’ll think twice about marrying her. 

Post # 6
10451 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

Dump her for being a horrible, piece of shit person.

There’s no way this is real.

Post # 7
650 posts
Busy bee

I hope this isn’t real. All I can say is if my fiance asked me to kick a friend out of my bridal party for struggling with depression and ruining some vision he had of what my friends should look like, the wedding would be off so fast it would make his head spin. 

Are you the groom? A friend of the bride? If you are, you need to talk some decency into her ASAP. Or you know, find a bride who isn’t a terrible human. 

Post # 8
2797 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - St Peter\'s Church, East Maitland, and Bella Vista, Newcastle

This is like that one that’s been floating around the internet in the last week where the MOB wanted to boot the Maid/Matron of Honor because she had a limp and the MOB thought it would ruin the ceremony.  Don’t dump the groomsman, dump the bride.

Post # 9
1853 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

Tell the bride there is no program that can edit out her horrific personality so there will be no wedding. Problem solved. 

Post # 10
2320 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

The bride is awful and I can’t believe she would be so selfish 

Post # 11
4924 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

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Chris4 :  far out….I’d reconsider my choice in mate before I’d ever kick out a good friend for the reasons listed. 

The bride sounds awful. Ironically, she is worried about ugliness but she hasn’t realised the ‘ugliest’ person in her photos will be her…

Post # 12
4963 posts
Honey bee

I’d dump the bride.  I’m quite certain we don’t share the same values and I would never want to share my life with someone so superficial and disloyal.

Post # 13
367 posts
Helper bee

My theory is groomsmen are not brides thing to worry about n bridesmaids are not grooms things to worry about, in other words – don’t be controlling n manipulative! 

But why are we even discussing this- there is a bigger problem-The Bride!!! if the wedding is still taking place!

Post # 14
621 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

She is awful and so does he for not defending his friends!

Post # 15
5468 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: July 2018

Dump the bride, take the groomsman on the honeymoon instead!

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