What would you do if the Bride wants to drop one of the groomsmen….

posted 2 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 16
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1539 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

I hope this is only a hypothetical question but the bride is in bridezilla mode and the groom should remind her that he has picked the groomsmen etc.

Post # 17
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6379 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY

Dump the bride

Post # 18
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1675 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

The groom needs to grow a pair.

Post # 19
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7433 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’m really hoping this isn’t real because it’s so so sad.

What would I do? I would dump the bride.

What will happen to the groom when he starts getting older and not looking his best? Or God forbid… If he gains weight? Will the bride drop him too?

Post # 20
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90 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

Jeeez. It’s meant to be a celebration of love not a f*ckin’ photoshoot. Nothing to say that hasn’t been said; bride seems like a douche. It’s the groom’s day too and he needs to put his foot down (or put both feet out the door and keep walking).

Post # 21
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1629 posts
Bumble bee

Replace the bride, obviously. Wouldn’t want her ugly personality ruining photos. 

Post # 22
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6737 posts
Bee Keeper

Dump the bride, keep the Groomsmen. It’s the only solution.

I also hope this is only a hypothetical question. 

Post # 23
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1090 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

Groom should dump the bride. Groom and groomsman should go to Vegas.

Post # 24
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Sugar bee

Chris4 :  The groom should thinking about dropping the bride. Anyone who would rather hurt a good friend for the sake of pictures has a serious character flaw IMO.

Post # 25
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Chris4 :  Cut the bride out of the picture – before the wedding.   At least the groom found out what the bride was truly like before the wedding.  

Groomsman sounds like a real treasure of a friend.   Groom is lucky to know him.  

Post # 26
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

I’m not perfect, I have tons of issues myself but I cannot *imagine* being so selfish, self-centered, rude, and shallow enough to want to kick out a groomsman who is HELPING FUND THE WEDDING because he’s gained weight and is depressed! She sounds like a real gem.

Post # 27
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3966 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

OP, please come back and tell me this is some kind of effed up hypothetical so I can continue having any semblance of hope for humanity…

Post # 28
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2017

I’m going to go against the grain here…

Just kidding.

Someone needs to put the bride in her place. Either she’s completely wrapped up in the wedding and losing sight of friends and family, or she’s just a pos. There’s only one way to find out and I sincerely hope op provides an update that the bride was confronted and what happened after that.

Post # 29
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2017

Actually, I saw an add that bridezillas is casting again. The earlier seasons were just about stressed out brides. The later seasons showcase the bottom of the barrel… absolute monsters of people (in most cases anyway, some brides are still just stressed) who are total batshit cray cray…. This story belongs in an episode. Make the call.

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