(Closed) What would you do if you called the cops on your mother in law

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

What would you even send a thank you for??  You sent back her gift! (although I completely understand why, but still, it leaves you nothing to thank her for).

I would absolutely send her nothing!

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee

@ams12:

Wow!!  I am speechless!  I just wanted to say I am sorry for you and your husband!  I hope that you have a long and happy marriage.  🙂  I guess I should say that I don’t know why you should send her a thank you-for what? Making a fool of herself at the reception?  I am glad that you had a wonderful wedding day.  Your gown is beautiful-the bodice is similar to mine from nearly 30 yrs. ago lol.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Oh geez.  I’m SO sorry that you’re dealing with this situation.

I for one, would not send her a thank-you card.  She gave you nothing to be thankful for… just a lot of heartache.  At this point, you might risk coming off rude to her, but is this something that will make or break your relationship with her?  No.  The damage has already been done.

I would just cut ties completely.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

WTF? (excuse my language)

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Hellllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll NO – don’t send her a thank you.  You poor thing.  I can’t even begin to imagine how upsetting this was for you both. 

What you should send her is an invoice for the extra 11 people she invited last minute. What a selfish soul.

 

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Holy freaking crap. 

No I would not send her a Thank You card. 

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Dont send her a thank you card..nothing is going to change her behavior and she will probably find more reasons to say nasty things to and about you. My FH’s family HATES me, mother threatened to slap me, sister threatened me, called my mom a whore, etc etc.. and the funny part… I’ve never even met them! We’ve considered sending them an invite to wedding anyway, but decided not to b/c they might try and ruin it.

I know its hard for you and your husband, i’m going through the motions of it right now, but sometimes you just have to let it be and move foward without her in your life. (((HUGS)))

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