(Closed) What would you do if you didn't like your rings together?

posted 6 years ago in Rings
  • poll: What would you do?

    Change your ERing

    Change your wedding band

    Just wear wedding band

    Just wear wedding band & switch ERing to right hand

    Wear them together regardless

    Other (because all good polls have an 'other')

  • Post # 31
    978 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    I think they look amazing together! Give it sometime after you get married and see if it just needs some getting used to ๐Ÿ™‚

    BUT if your absolutely positive you dont love it change it before the wedding so you have the same ring he slipped on your finger the day you said I do ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 32
    443 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2014


    This site had tons of plain bands, I emailed them about having one slightly altered and they were very responsive and didn’t charge more for the change. Shipping to Canada was resonable as well.

    Post # 33
    1505 posts
    Bumble bee

    They look great together. I would try wearing them more a few months and see how you feel. You were engaged for a long time, you got used to seeing your engagement alone. It will take some getting used  to, but I bet you’ll love your set once you get used to seeing them together.

    Post # 34
    1916 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I just wear mine on separate hands.  I keep my ering on my left hand, because that’s where I prefer it.  I don’t look any less committed.

    Post # 35
    305 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    To be truthful I’m in this situation now. Both my rings are stunning, but they don’t belong together. I had the wedding band custom made and while it is beautiful it clashes with my ering. My ering has milgrain and is hand craved while my wedding band is just milgrain. I wear them together because at the end of the day I love them so much. My DH plans to upgrade my ering and give me a new band for our vow renewal, so maybe then I’ll have a matchy set. 

    Post # 36
    322 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    They look very nice together. ๐Ÿ˜‰ 

    Post # 37
    1001 posts
    Bumble bee

    I wouldn’t be in this situation, because I wouldn’t have rings that I didn’t have a (large) role in picking out.  I also wouldn’t have rings that I didn’t help pay for.

    Post # 38
    2733 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I honestly think your set is perfection! It’s exactly up to MY taste ๐Ÿ˜‰ Love a tapered band that allows for a distinction between your 2 rings. Love the scalloped wedding band and all the milgrain. Superb!

    So yeah…I’d obviously wear them together ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 39
    34 posts

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    linnylou_88:  I loved both my original rings separately but together I didn’t really like the look. I ended up getting two new bands for around my engagement ring and I wear my original wedding band on my right hand! It’s the best of both worlds I think! 

    • This reply was modified 5 years, 11 months ago by  Annabellbee.
    Post # 40
    9126 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

    I would wear them both for at least a day and see if it grows on you. (Luck is not real and no one will notice you added a ring, so no downside.)

    If it doesn’t start to look better in your mind, I’d think about switching the band personally. I wanted a set I can wear together and I DEFINITELY wanted my wedding band to be the one used at the wedding. 

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