Post # 32
I would be petrified! Neither of us wants kids but I also have baby fever so that’s weird. We are both in school and imo we don’t make enough to be able to comfortably afford a baby. It would not be a good thing for us. Not at all.
Post # 33
I would freak out. My level of baby fever has not yet outweighed my terror at giving birth in a foreign country where any kind of pain medication during labor is frowned on.
Post # 34
I would be a bit bummed I guess because we are planning a big overseas trip this summer which we would have to annul… And what about the dress, it woulnd’t fit anymore would it? 😮 After the marriage, excited!
Post # 35
@bmo88: I’d cry and call my best friend to figure out how the hell to tell Fiance who doesn’t want biological children.
Post # 36
@bmo88: I would be shocked/upset! I’m on long term birth control (Mirena) so it wouldn’t be a welcome surprise. SO and I don’t want kids!
Post # 37
Apple_Blossom: lol, best answer ever 😉
Post # 38
I would be a happy (I cannot wait to become a Mother) but terrified because this would be an unplanned pregnancy and our last (also unplanned) pregnancy resulted in a miscarriage.
Post # 39
I’d be a little bit bummed about not drinking at the wedding and having to be careful about what I eat on the honeymoon. ( Not a big drinker, but champagne toast at the wedding is traditional) Fiance and I are trying to wait a couple years until we buy a house to have kids, but at this point if it happens it happens. I’d be nervous but also excited.
Post # 40
I would call every news outlet on the planet, and sell the story to the highest bidder!
Post # 41
Right now? Breathe a sigh of relief that my dress will still fit! And be a little sad I couldn’t have a glass of champagne to celebrate my nuptials!
Post # 43
@bmo88: Freak out a lot. Haha. I’m getting married in October, so I would barely have had the baby and then have to walk down the aisle in a form-fitting white dress.
BUT we both would be very happy at the same time. It would be fine. Fiance and I want kids almost right away after we get married….it would just be a little sooner than expected.
Post # 44
I’d be pretty dissapointed as I’ve just started a temporary job and apply for the permanent position on Monday. If I get that (pretty likely) & work for another 3 months I would qualify for 14 weeks paid maternity leave. As it stands, I’d get nothing. In 3 months- no worries. Right now= sucks. But we’d keep the bubs as we’ll probably TTC in 6 months anyway. But I’m on the pill right now & have my period so I’d be pretty confused too!
Post # 45
Cry. Then have a frank conversation with Fiance, we are not ready for kids at this point. We’ve both discussed how it would go if it happened anytime soon. That’s part of the reason I take such precautions, I’m not prepared for it going that way either mentally.
Post # 46
I’d cry a mixture of happy and terrified tears. I’d worry that my dress wouldnt be able to fit, and I’d have to get a new one. I’d run out and apply for a job anywhere and everywhere, seeing as how I dont have a job at all right now.
I know we’d make it work, I’d just be so scared. But I’d also be so happy.