Post # 1
I heard yesterday through a mutual acquaintance that a girl who used to threaten me and occasionally beat me up all through high school just got engaged. Last night I had a nightmare that she joined the Bee!
Plz no names if this is actually happened to you; lets keep this civil. But what would you do, if anything? Would it change how/what you post?
I know it’s probably not going to happen, but now that I’ve had that dream, I’m worried about it. Especially since I hear she still talks crap on me.
Post # 3
Kill em with kindness!
I’m old enough now that I put the past behind me for childish stuff like that. I’d probably still offer advice and be civil.
Post # 4
I would take down the pictures I’ve posted of myself so she wouldn’t find me!
Post # 5
I wouldn’t care, just take any photos of you down so she wouldn’t know who you were.
Post # 6
Eh, I doubt anyone would really recognize me from a screen name but my pics are all over the place so it could happen. I also recommend WB to any and every bride I meet. I don’t think that I would care that much. I did run into a extended family member that I can’t stand on another wedding site that I read but never post to, she lasted a few hours and got kicked off. Still giggling about it. Hah, she used her real name as her screen name so she was super easy to recognize. She also used her pic as her avi.
Post # 7
I don’t have a worst enemy so I don’t know haha
Post # 8
I acutally worry about this a lot. That someone who was really, really mean to my in high school (and there was a lot!) will join the bee, and recognize me and laugh at my ideas or planning or whatever. But I have the self esteem that I did in high school, which is I’m convinced everyone hates me, so there’s that.
Post # 9
My “worst enemy” is a man. But his gf and I are shaky (because he is evil!). She’s actually a pretty nice girl, normally, but her bf is a jerk, and she joins in with him when he’s being rude.
He’s said he’ll never marry her, and that she isn’t someone he’d like to spend his life with. If she joined I’d have a tough time reading what she posted (and wondering if she would recognize my stuff, though I doubt it, because I don’t post too much that is recognizable… do I?!
Anyways. I’d probably be a bit of a bitch… I’m not always nice, and if I’m in a bad mood I CAN be terrible if I decide to not listen to myself (me is too nice, other me can be a super bitch, too nice me usually wins, but sometimes bitch wins).
Post # 10
I noticed that my last ex’s now fiance is on the boards. He and I were together for years and thought we were eventually going to get married but instead the relationship died a long, slow death. But just yesterday I noticed the recently-changed icon of the two of them and it weirds me out. =/ I’ve never met her and have no bad feelings about her or anything… but I was just kinda like o_O But… can’t do anything about it really. Wouldn’t want to make it weird for her. I saw she even posted on one of my threads! haha But her icon was different so I was non the wiser. She doesn’t know so I’ll just bear the brunt I guess. haha. I mean what else to do? Just let it go.
Post # 11
If she had a poll to help her choose her gown, I’d vote for the ugliest one.
Just kidding! … Or am I?
Post # 12
I’m not sure who my worst enemy is, and I could care less if I had one and she joined the bee… I have nothing to hide….
Post # 13
It would depend on why she was my enemy.
If it was an old grudge, I’d just ignore her. If she did something recently horrendous to me, I’d probably passive aggressively attack her at every chance I got.
Just being honest. Thankfully I have no female enemies.
Post # 14
Yeah, I have to agree that I have nothing to hide! And I can’t even think of who my worst enemy would be…
Post # 15
I would take down all my photos so I couldn’t be recognized. I wouldn’t want someone to figure me out and share my personal details. Actualy, that’s something that bugs me about this site (and most forums in general) – your content can never be deleted.
Post # 16
@TurdFerguson: Just wanted to say I love your sn!