(Closed) What would you do if your worst enemy joined the Bee?

posted 6 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
2359 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Kill em with kindness!   

I’m old enough now that I put the past behind me for childish stuff like that.  I’d probably still offer advice and be civil.  

Post # 4
2143 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I would take down the pictures I’ve posted of myself so she wouldn’t find me!

Post # 5
1832 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

I wouldn’t care, just take any photos of you down so she wouldn’t know who you were.

Post # 6
14495 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Eh, I doubt anyone would really recognize me from a screen name but my pics are all over the place so it could happen.  I also recommend WB to any and every bride I meet. I don’t think that I would care that much.  I did run into a extended family member that I can’t stand on another wedding site that I read but never post to, she lasted a few hours and got kicked off.  Still giggling about it.  Hah, she used her real name as her screen name so she was super easy to recognize.  She also used her pic as her avi.

Post # 7
1071 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I don’t have a worst enemy so I don’t know haha

Post # 8
2305 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

I acutally worry about this a lot. That someone who was really, really mean to my in high school (and there was a lot!) will join the bee, and recognize me and laugh at my ideas or planning or whatever. But I have the self esteem that I did in high school, which is I’m convinced everyone hates me, so there’s that.


Post # 9
462 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

My “worst enemy” is a man. But his gf and I are shaky (because he is evil!). She’s actually a pretty nice girl, normally, but her bf is a jerk, and she joins in with him when he’s being rude.

He’s said he’ll never marry her, and that she isn’t someone he’d like to spend his life with. If she joined I’d have a tough time reading what she posted (and wondering if she would recognize my stuff, though I doubt it, because I don’t post too much that is recognizable… do I?!

Anyways. I’d probably be a bit of a bitch… I’m not always nice, and if I’m in a bad mood I CAN be terrible if I decide to not listen to myself (me is too nice, other me can be a super bitch, too nice me usually wins, but sometimes bitch wins).

Post # 10
966 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I noticed that my last ex’s now fiance is on the boards. He and I were together for years and thought we were eventually going to get married but instead the relationship died a long, slow death. But just yesterday I noticed the recently-changed icon of the two of them and it weirds me out. =/ I’ve never met her and have no bad feelings about her or anything… but I was just kinda like o_O But… can’t do anything about it really. Wouldn’t want to make it weird for her. I saw she even posted on one of my threads! haha But her icon was different so I was non the wiser. She doesn’t know so I’ll just bear the brunt I guess. haha. I mean what else to do? Just let it go. 

Post # 11
2497 posts
Buzzing bee

If she had a poll to help her choose her gown, I’d vote for the ugliest one.

Just kidding! … Or am I?

Post # 12
8472 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m not sure who my worst enemy is, and I could care less if I had one and she joined the bee… I have nothing to hide….

Post # 13
1855 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

It would depend on why she was my enemy.

If it was an old grudge, I’d just ignore her. If she did something recently horrendous to me, I’d probably passive aggressively attack her at every chance I got.

Just being honest. Thankfully I have no female enemies.

Post # 14
986 posts
Busy bee

Yeah, I have to agree that I have nothing to hide! And I can’t even think of who my worst enemy would be… 

Post # 15
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

I would take down all my photos so I couldn’t be recognized. I wouldn’t want someone to figure me out and share my personal details. Actualy, that’s something that bugs me about this site (and most forums in general) – your content can never be deleted. 

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