(Closed) What would you do?? I’m torn..

posted 7 years ago in Rings
  • poll: What would you do?
    Send it back no matter how long it takes to get the ring back : (108 votes)
    95 %
    Just keep it : (4 votes)
    4 %
    Only send it if they assure it will be back in a few days : (2 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
    9824 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    This is going to be the ring you wear forever, it should be the one you want. You can deal without your ring for awhile, it won’t mean you’re any less engaged.

    Post # 4
    526 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Supposedly, you are going to be wearing this ring for the rest of your life.  I think it is definitely worth it to wait, even if it takes months.

    Post # 5
    2114 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    You will be happy you exchanged it in the end

    Post # 6
    1352 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Yeah this is your ring for life make sure it’s what you want! PLUS if they mixed up the cut how do you know all the other specs are correct?  I would definately send it back just to make sure you got the correct diamond that he paid for.

    Post # 7
    8738 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I would send it back. He paid for the cushion cut stone, so you should get the cushion cut stone. 

    Did you get the right GIA certificate for the cushion cut stone? Or did they send the GIA for the round?

    Post # 8
    3618 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    If you like the ring as is I would keep it. Round cut stones sparkle more and are the “perfect” cut. I actually always wanted a cushion cut but my Darling Husband wanted the “perfect” cut so he got me round and I do love how much my ring sparkles.

    Post # 9
    9029 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    If you dont like it, and the company sent the wrong stone then return it.

    Post # 10
    11419 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2009

    I would send it back.  Even if they have to keep it for weeks.  You want the stone your Fiance and you chose, not the wrong one.  I had a problem with one of my baguettes, and I was SO disappointed that the jeweler had to send my ring back to NY to the designer, and they had it for like six weeks. They even had my ring over the Christmas holidays the year I was engaged. I was so disppointed to have to travel to another state to visit all of my family WITHOUT my actual ring (I wore a CZ stand-in.)  However, you will be much happier to get your ring back the way that you want it. You may have to live without it for a number of weeks, but that is much better than having to stare at a stone you didn’t want and don’t like for the rest of your life.

    Post # 11
    5797 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Send that baby back! There is no way I’d settle for a different cut just so I could have a ring on my finger.

    Post # 13
    4803 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Even if it takes a few week to get it fixed, you’ll be wearing this ring for the rest of your life! I’d get it fixed. 

    Post # 14
    204 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    Deffo send it back. If you want cushion, you’re always goingto think of that so I wouldn’t hesitate in getting the one you want.


    Post # 15
    7606 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    Send it back!  Grab a cheapo ring from walmart if you need to have a ring on your finger for the next few weeks.  Good luck!

    Post # 16
    3148 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2010

    @ames12708: “SO” is “significant other” you can call him that if you want. it means just about anything, and is gender neutral.

    anyway, my two cents: return the ring! also insist that they reimburse you for return shipping (you should get that sucker insured which costs extra), AND that they should pay for overnight shipping of your cushion cut ring at their own expense. 

    if they don’t comply, threaten to take your business elsewhere. this is their mistake.  

    at least, that’s what I would do 🙂

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