(Closed) What would you do in this situation? – lovely family drama

posted 9 years ago in Family
Post # 48
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649 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@Corilee13: If it were me I’d tell them too damn bad, then don’t come!  But that’s just the type of person I am.  I know you aren’t doing it out of respect for your Fiance more than anything else.  I feel terrible for you.  It’s supposed to be your day.  Even though it’s about the both of you, we all know it’s really about the bride!  I hope you can manage to find a way to have it your way.  Maybe let Fiance read all of the Bee responses!

Post # 49
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467 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Corilee13: Oh I don’t drink either but I know a lot of the Bees do. Pumpkin pie sounds SOOO yummy!!! *drools*

And if they wont come, they wont. There isn’t anything you can do about that. If they’re going to be that selfish about it then it isn’t worth bending over backwards to accomidate them. And hopefully your Fiance will see that too.

Post # 50
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543 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@Corilee13: You’re doing the right thing by standing up for yourself. If they try to guilt you and your Fiance around now and you give in, they will keep doing it forever.

Post # 52
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467 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Corilee13: I’m glad your Fiance appologised! And I’m glad you guys are working together to help sort this out! *hugs*

I hope that meeting goes well!! I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you.

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