- This Time Round
- 6 years ago
- Wedding: December 2012
FACT – Druggies (or worse Addicts) don’t make good Husbands !!
(Been there, done that… got the Divorce !!)
That is it, that is all.
You have to decide IF that is the pond you wish to fish in to find the Man you’ll spend the rest of your life with.
It doesn’t sound like it is…
I have dated two different guys (each over 2 years) who both started out as heavy social drinkers, moved to weed, which changed to constant weed-smoking, and eventually (in BOTH situations) evolved to hidden heavy drug use. Cocaine was used by both of them. I ended those relationships, and after the second one ended I really though to myself “OKAY, I’m clearly going after the wrong type of guy… new strategy needed!”
Say what you want (you too are making excuses / enabling)
New Guy… LOOKS A LOT LIKE THE OLD GUYS !!
Drugs suck… they can truly “take away” the person you are in love with.
It is worse when you take the person you are in Love with (and look up to) and they are corrupting your little Brother.
EVEN THO you have REPEATEDLY asked him not to.
He’s smoking dope, he’s lieing to you, he’s leading your Brother astray
Tell me… How is you see this man as a good partner & good role model / father figure ?
No rush… I can wait.
Ya, didn’t think so.
Your head sounds screwed on right… you just haven’t figured out that 1+1 should equal 2
You need A PARTNER you can DEPEND ON.
YOU CAN DO BETTER THAN THIS MAN
YOU DESERVE BETTER !!
Cut him lose… and then get a hold of the following book (buy it) by Dr Phil, so you can sit down and fill out the Quizes to figure out WHO YOU ARE… WHAT YOU WANT OUT OF LIFE… HOW TO MAKE IT HAPPEN… and WHAT KIND OF MAN would go well WITH YOUR PLANS.
Dr Phil’s – Love Smart ~ Find The One You Want – Fix the one you got
Right now, I’d say you need to cut bait, and start over.
You need to embrace the REAL YOU…
Maybe even seek out a little one-on-one counselling for a “tune up” to see WHY it is you’ve been prone to only pick the Bad Boys…
When you have all that on track (who you are) it will easier to attract someone who also knows who they are, and are acting more responsibly too.
This guy ain’t it.