(Closed) What would you do? Stumbled upon message implying husband is bisexual

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 108
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

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@peonyinlove:  Wrong.

For awhile when I was younger I toyed with the idea I might be bisexual. I found women much more of a turn on than men at that stage. I slept with a couple women and knew pretty much straight away that I definintely was not gay or bi. I experimented, it sounded good in theory but in practice it just wasn’t for me. Since doing that I have absolutely no feelings towards women, sexual or otherwise. So because I have slept with women does that make me bi? Definitely not, but it did help me figure out exactly who I am. 

Some people have to figure it out and some people just know. 

Post # 109
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

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@soontobemrsm11:  Hyperventilate I might be completely alone here, but I would definitely be interested in the backstory if somebody told me they used to have a pet giraffe!!! (sorry for the tangent)

I do agree though, he may or may not be hiding something, there is no way to tell unless you bring it up casually. 

I think she has to ask because once you see a part of something you start to assume you know what the whole is, and that could lead to feelings of paranoia that are hard to undo. 

Post # 110
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

glad to see it all worked out! 🙂

Post # 112
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1999

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@anonamouse2013:  Happy to hear that your mind was just “jumping to conclusions” and your relationship is just as solid as you’ve always known it was.  Smile

Post # 113
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m not sure if I would confront him or not. It depends. Does the fact he might be into guys as well bother you? If not, please take this into consideration and apply it to him:

I’m bi. I am interested in women and men. However I am also completely and totally in love with my partner and have no interest in ANYONE else. Being bisexual has a odious association and people think “promiscious” instead of just being interested in both genders. We’re like anyone else, we just have a larger pool to pick from. If you trust him and he’s never given you reason to doubt his commitment to you, this shouldn’t make a difference. If he was single he might look both ways but he’s happily with you, he’s not looking for someoen else.

 

 

Post # 114
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

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@anonamouse2013:  I’m so glad it worked out! I’d be totally flattered if I wasn’t bi & found out that someone I loved would still love me regardless! It was a huge deal when I told everyone & I was beyond thrilled when my family didn’t care.

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@jessiebean:  LOL I would definitely want to know how someone got a pet giraffe. My SO wants a turkey or a llama or both haha

Post # 116
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

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@soontobemrsm11:  My FH wants a chicken and sheep! My dad actually had chicken and sheep…

Post # 117
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

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@soontobemrsm11:  

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@jessiebean:  

my neighbours mom has a pet crow….and some goats and dogs and cats..I think I’m missing something…

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