(Closed) What would you do with a friend like this?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

It seems like the issue isnt really that she left your name off the card, but the other suspicions you have had with her in past years over her flirty behaviour.

If it is bothering you, put a bit of distance between the two of you and dont mention the card.

Post # 4
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3693 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Cut her off.  She wants your husband.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@strawbabies:  I love your response…to the point!

I would definitely be offended by a card like that.  I’ve been in similar situations and I had a strong dislike for people that didn’t consider me part of the marital unit.  

Do you see this woman often?  The comment “I wanted to let you know I still think about you..” makes me think she has other motives.  IDK but it rubs me the wrong way!

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Rise above it. Don’t even gratify this kind of immature nonsense with a response or talking to her about it. She wants the drama — don’t give it to her. I think talking to her will just let her believe that you’re actually threatened by her (which obviously you’re not, but I’m sure she’s the kind of person who’ll see things however she wants), and she’ll just keep needling at you like this.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Sure it was inconsiderate, but I don’t know, maybe she has suffered a similar loss in the past and just wanted to send her condolences to the man that had just lost his father.

She might want your husband, but then she might have been reaching back and reflecting on her own grief from the past and just didn’t think to add you. 

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