(Closed) What would you like you SO to do in bed that he does not do now?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 17
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Newbee

Massage my feet! LOL everything else is good ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 19
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

Our intimacy is great, but I would love Fiance to take me by surprise one day when I’m least expecting it.  Maybe throw me against the wall and show how badly he wants me.  Hahaha.

Post # 20
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2004

I sometimes wish my husband would be a little more dominating/agressive. Don’t get me wrong, he is great and always wants to make sure I have a good time, but once in a while I would love it if he would just pull my hair and shove my face in the pillow ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 21
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Be more wild in bed….try new things

Post # 22
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

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@penguinof3:  Ditto and also a vibrator. He wont let one join us in bed. lol 

It seems like many of us Bee’s want the same thing hehe 

Post # 23
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Bumble bee

I would definitely love him to be more domineering. Seriously, when you get home from work, pick me up and throw me down on the bed. PLEASE! haha

Also, he tends to put all of his body weight on me, which can be nice, but sometimes, it’s hard to breath and I have to push him off. He doesn’t get the fact that me sitting up a little bit makes it more pleasurable, and I prefer to have my hands and arms on his shoulders or around his neck, or I feel suffocated. It also keeps him from pulling on my hair too much.

Post # 25
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

toss the flipping salad.

Post # 26
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Reading these posts makes me think of Fifty Shades of Grey. By no means do I want to go as far as that book, but some of the ideas are fascinating. Hands tied can be extremely enticing.

Post # 27
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2020 - establishment theatre

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@MissHornet:  oh its fun! but trust is a HUGE deal when getting into bondage. my Fiance doesnt have an issue with that but its always me asking and its planned out, I want him to just walk in and throw me against a wall and take charge!!! seriously like dont take no for an answer( have a safe word!) but just more spontanious and aggressive! i love the gentle love making dont get me wrong but once in a while  a little roughness and f***king is a good thing!

Post # 28
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Initiate.  We have a great bedroom life, but I always have to essentially convince him to do it.  It makes me laugh because when we were living apart we were like rabbits everytime we were together….and we saw each other almost every day!

Post # 29
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Worker bee

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@TurtleDoves:  I’m right there with ya! My Fiance will do anything and wants to do some stuff that I think is insane. Maybe I just need to stop being so uptight about it lol.

For me I would like Fiance to not treat doing the deed like a chore. He always seems bothered by having to take the time to do it. Even then we only do the deed maybe a few times a month. It sucks and I don’t know what’s wrong. 

Post # 30
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

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@penguinof3:  Oh I agree completely. We’ve tested the waters and we both love it, but my Fiance isn’t very agressive with his initial moves. I’m trying to get him to read the book to get some ideas ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 31
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2019

I wish he was in it more. ):

It’s really hard only seeing him for one or two nights a week.

I’m very satisfied all the way around with our bedroom affairs otherwise.

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