(Closed) What would you like you SO to do in bed that he does not do now?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 32
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Busy bee

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@Lovepurses:  OMG, I would do ANYTHING for him if my SO massaged my feet. I had an ex who would give me foot massages everytime we hung out. We’d watch movies 3-4 times a week or football, and he (without being asked) would just take my feet into his hands and rub them for a good 30 minutes. OH EM FLIPPEN GEE. It felt soooooo good. And now my guy won’t do it. 🙁 I’ve ASKED him to give me foot massages and he said NO. And he doesn’t even have a problem with feet! He just doesn’t want to. Grrrrr….. 

 

But in bed… totally the vibrator. It takes me a lot to get to the big O without some sort of clitoral stimulation. I sometimes “pregame” before he comes over to get warmed up!

Post # 33
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Switch up the positions a little during the act. And +1 for the dominant, aggressive sex. I mean, we’re definitely not vanilla but I don’t want some 50 Shades of Grey watered down sex, I want some Kink.com. 

Post # 34
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Worker bee

I think for me its the other way around XD lots of things I dont do anymore (and often enough of) that he probably wants me to!!

Post # 35
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

nothing =)

He is the perfect lover for me. I know, I know, we’re disgusting. Lol!

I actaully asked him tonight if there was anything I could do better or more for him and he said “Huh…stop having period. That would be cool. Can you do that?!”

I told him after we have kids I’ll never have another one again! (totally getting tubes burned)

Now he wants to TTC!!! I told him to hold his horses and wait till after the wedding. Lol, silly man.

Post # 36
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Buzzing Beekeeper

Make the damn thing! If he just did that everything would be perfect! lol

Post # 37
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Be more vocal and louder. i love hearing him = huge turn on for me.

Post # 38
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2020 - establishment theatre

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@HisLittleRed:  um having your tubes burned will not stop you from having a period….I had a tubal ligation( tubes cut and burned) after my third child and let me tell you OH HELL YES i get a period! and its 100 times worse than before! to the point im having my tubal reversed! the ONLY way to stop having a period all together is to have a hysterectomy….not sure who told you getting your tubes burned will stop a period

Post # 39
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Stop hogging the blankets!  😛

Post # 40
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I wish he knew how to give massages it totally sucks at it. 

Post # 41
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

TO

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@HisLittleRed:  agree with
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@penguinof3:

So although you wrote…

I actaully asked him tonight if there was anything I could do better or more for him and he said “Huh…stop having period. That would be cool. Can you do that?!”

I told him after we have kids I’ll never have another one again! (totally getting tubes burned)

Sorry, don’t know where you got your info, but it isn’t correct…

A Tubal only means that you won’t convey an egg onto the womb (because the tube is blocked in one way or another)… IT DOESN’T MEAN THAT YOU WON’T HAVE PERIODS.  Your hormones are still functioning / intact… so your body produces an egg, and your womb prepares for it… when the egg isn’t fertilized (in this case because it never arrives on the scene) your womb still goes ahead and has a period.

 

Post # 42
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2005

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@HisLittleRed:  I think you mean endometrial ablation which I would really like myself after putting those coil things in. I have mirena now and I haven’t had a period in almost 5 years.  I am due for a renewal and not sure what to do.

 

I also would like my DH to be more aggressive.  I think being tied up, ANY part of my body, would be totally hot!  Maybe some light bondage like choking or hair pulling or spanking…  Hehehe

Also, I wish he kissed more.  I used to love making out and it just doesn’t happen anymore.

Post # 43
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

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@penguinof3:  Woah. I should’ve known that. Meh. I’ll just get the whole damn thing taken out if My doctor lets me.

Post # 44
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

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@MrsKittyMt:  The clips? I haven’t heard of the coils? 

 

Either way PMDD sucks. And I’d like to just get rid of the whole thing!

Post # 45
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2005

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@HisLittleRed:  Messaged you, don’t want to thread jack.

Post # 46
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2012

hahaha @armywife

straight up huh! lol

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