(Closed) What would you like you SO to do in bed that he does not do now?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 47
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418 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I want him to stop trying to lay on top of me when im on bottom. Maybe Too Much Information but even though we dont have sex i like to feel him against me down there, and whenever he does this he tries to kiss me by laying down directly on top of me, and since im about 200 and he is about 400, it makes it really hard to breathe.

I know for a fact that he wants nothing more from me than i already do, because his one fantasy was for me to take control, so just the other night i walked in, grabbed him by the front of his shirt and threw him down on the bed. Totally worked.

 

Post # 48
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598 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

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@penguinof3:  I totally agree.  I love a dominant man in bed ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 49
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811 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I used to be into the D/s scene and I really miss a lot of the benefits I got from that type of relationship, so I guess I’d like Fiance to be more dominating and hold me accountable for action or inaction.

Post # 50
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

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@Rouquine:  LOL, Fiance said he would love it if I took him by surprise and initiate kinda thing.  I don’t like to unless its genuine, and even then I’m subtle I’ll give him one of those passionate kisses and it kinda goes from there…

 

Post # 51
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Oh Lord…the list of things I’d like for him to do is endless and not just relegated to what’s here:

 

Look up new positions to try. Buy sex toys. Surprise me? Truthfully, our sex life has always kind of been bland and boring. It’s obviously not too important to me, though – I stick around.

Post # 52
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I read the first of the “50 Shades of Grey” Trilogy, and he’s reading it now while I’m on the second, and he definitely is loving some of the ideas from the book. So I’m anticipating some *more* amazing sex in my future. I always could use more kink!

Post # 53
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

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@ArmyWife8806:  I literally laughed out loud. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 54
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3586 posts
Sugar bee

Be open to D/S! I used to be a sub before we met 4yrs ago and I miss it. He thinks it’s too weird. Whatevs.

Post # 55
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2831 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Just be romantic. I’d like to come home to candles, rose pedles and some Pink Floyd in the background!! HOW CHEESY!! But he is so not the type to do anything like that ๐Ÿ™

Other then that he is down for anything sexually, I on the other hand am not :/

Post # 56
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

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@Artificial-Sweetener:  hey Hey HEY.

Pink Floyd.

Is not cheesy.

๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 57
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578 posts
Busy bee

my guy is willing to do everything in bed. TMI! I need to keep teaching him to be a little more gentle on me during oral, he gets waaay too into it sometimes. same when he’s using his hands- he’s got big rough manly hands that i love, but it can also be a problem… oh well, practice makes perfect!

on the other hand, when we want to try new things, like recently we wanted to try adding in a blindfold and tying up our hands, and adding in a vibrator, he alwayyyys wants me to do it to him first. I think he wants to know what I do, so he has an idea of what he should do to me. I wish he would take control and let me have it sometimes ๐Ÿ˜‰ surprise me babe!

Post # 58
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Helper bee

My guy is open to everything lol he likes to be dominating, he does pull my hair, I’d wish he’d remember to choke me though lol he likes restraining my hands but he hasn’t tied my hands yet. He wasn’t opened to licking the cat, but now he’s gotten better at it. I’m not sure if he’ll be open to toys during sex though = but he would if it has to do with….what’s a nice way to put it? The other hole?? Lol

I WISH HE WASN’T SO EASY ALL THE TIME!!! Funny that’s a complaint

Post # 59
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4581 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Basically, everything that’s already been mentioned.

  • Be more aggressive
  • More oral
  • Just freaking initiate once in a while!

Post # 60
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3580 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Nibble my toes. Love it!!

Post # 61
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

More build-up. Start with dirty texting to romance, longer foreplay and teasing. =)

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