(Closed) What would you like you SO to do in bed that he does not do now?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 62
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

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@WillyNilly:  Really? A guy decided to do that to me once, and I couldn’t stand it! 

Post # 63
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

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@WillyNilly:  I would probably accidentally kick him in the face because it tickles.

Yep…punt him right in the face.

Post # 64
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

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@WillyNilly:  I love having my toes licked and nibbled.

Post # 65
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

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@Torrid:  Me too!

Post # 66
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

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@lilsweetie:  agree with this ‘

 

 

Post # 67
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Helper bee

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@WillyNilly:  ooh! i’d like that! but maybe more sucking then nibbling

Post # 68
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Seriously we are GGG and will do anything in bed.  Super satisfying and always something new.  

I don’t understand people who will not try something at least once with their partners.

Post # 69
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

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@StuporDuck:  What about the back of your knees? If you take in the tickle and don’t react, it turns totally erogenous. Meow!

Post # 70
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

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@Torrid:  Please. You would kick him in the face for fun. Don’t lie!! 😉

Post # 72
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Agree with the foot massages! Fiance hates giving massages of any sort, and it makes me want to cry because he has perfect strong manly hands that can give amazing massages… for 2 mintues max. This is one thing I really wish he would change!

But to actually answer the question… for him to initiate more (he says he wants more sex, but what he really means is that he wants me to initiate sex more often. He rarely does anymore) and to be a little rougher. He is usually just a little bit to gentle and slow for me, because he prefers that pace to get off, AND he used to be afraid of hurting me since he is a lot bigger than I am.

 

 

Post # 73
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

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@WillyNilly:  Don’t cloud the issue with facts! 😉

Post # 74
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Im with you girls who’d like a bit more dominance, rough play….he loves it gentle and slow and that’s great but hey sometimes a girl just wants to be thrown on the bed and taken!

Post # 75
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I have to say I’m pretty much the same as a lot of you– I wish he’d initiate more often (more aggressively and assertively) and be a tad rougher, and not be grossed out so much by oral!! I’d like to experience it at least once. . . (he’s the first guy I’ve been with and will likely be the only! 🙂 )

Post # 76
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Its funny the bees are mentioning being dominated. Also more in point that a few have mentioned ’50 shades of grey’. I’m 31 but Ive had more than 50 shades of grey, I’m all up in the tertiary color chart, talk about taste the rainbow and let my freak flag FLY! I’ve been with less people than one would think but the people I’ve chosen have taken me places. There are some things I wouldnt do and I think that goes without saying for most people. Some things are just not my cup of tea but when my fiancee and I started dating I had an idea that he might have an imagination. Hes not your average bear…he’s bald, covered in tattoos, so right away you think: Thug. If you look a little closer he wears glasses and the tattoos are buddhist and hes an avid reader…I’m sure I could be pigeon holed as well but the point is, I felt it was important to be up front before we went for a test drive because sex is pretty important to me. I dont wanna find out later that I bought a lemon….I know that sounds shallow and I’ve loved people that were less than savvy in bed but thats not got anything to do with satisfaction.

Close minded or defensive people are a drag, I’m not interested in being a psychotherapist in bed and if youre constantly threatened by my sexuality, I don’t wanna deal with it so I was fortunate that he was open to hearing. One of the things I mentioned was that I’d spent time with a group who was practicing BDSM. It is really not at all what most people would think and though I’m relatively new to it, I explored it way before the book made a splash. What I liked about the people that I met were that they were so very honest and unapologetic about themselves. There was no judgement among these people. It wasnt all sexual either, most of it was psychological.

He shared that he had had some experiences in bdsm and I told him a little of what I liked and he was game! A man that listens! Its why I’m marrying the bugger! Our sex is life is pretty diverse and the man delivers like FED EX! My favorite thing has got to be his hands, I just DIE when he puts his hands on me. I told him when we started dating that I was just going to have an affair with his hands, thats it….now look at us. OKAY so before this turns into a gag fest and you think I’m a bragging. I WILL say this, he needs to be a little more aggressive with initiating. I don’t always wanna have to rip his pants off (cause I gotta sew the damn buttons back on the next day) and I know its been 3 yrs but come on, it REALLY turns me on when he gets that intense look in his eyes and backs me into a corner or makes me crab walk up the bed and then hauls me by my legs to him……I better stop. He’s trying to sleep right now lol! But, thats it, just more play from his end. I know he knows how, just MORE dammit!

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