(Closed) What would you prefer more in a SO…

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
3671 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Aquaria:  I would prefer employment. Darling Husband didn’t go to college because that was never his dream and instead he joined the military at the age of 17 🙂

He had a lot of offers and scholarships were pretty much pounding on his door of opportunity but it just wasn’t what he pictured for himself. 

Post # 4
9116 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012


Post # 5
2498 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Yeah, employment.

Post # 6
55 posts
Worker bee

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Post # 7
2946 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

It really depends on the employment type/ master degree.  If his masters degree is in something he enjoys and has potential to get him where he wants, I will support him.  If his job is something that he hates, I would support him to change.  I don’t think I could be with a guy who works in fast food and hates it, but I did date a guy who was getting his law degree, without knowing he had a job after school.  

Post # 8
5371 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014 - Ontario, Canada ♥ EDD- April 2016

I would choose unemployment & master’s, because in my town, there aren’t many opportunities without some kind of post-secondary education. Even if he was unemployed now, there is more long-term potential (in my area) for employment if he had a master’s versus a highshool diploma/GED.

Post # 9
3210 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

@Aquaria:  Masters and (current, temporary) unemployment. I’m just considering the potential for growth. 

Post # 10
333 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Masters (in something legit, not art or music or something) and unemployed but looking for work

Post # 11
543 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’d want to see growth and movement in a positive direction in either case. If my partner had a GED/employment, I’d want to see his striving for more, going back to school and getting a better job, rather than stuck in a terrible job forever. Same with the MS and unemployment – I’d want to see a serious effort in seeking ways to make ANY money with an eye towards the future of a stable career, through networking, applying and interviewing for jobs pretty much all the time. 

Post # 12
8471 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Employment definitely

Post # 13
523 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Degree-no question.

Post # 14
4929 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

Currently, my FH is the latter – GED and employed – which is fine… for now. I guess it all depends on our life situation otherwise. If I’m working, then Masters and unemployed is fine (temporarily), but if I can’t support us both, he needs to have a job.

Post # 15
2571 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@Aquaria:  Employment. Many college/Masters programs are a scam nowadays with no guaranteed shot of employment afterwards. I would however expect that he be in some kind of growth/development track within his job and not at a dead-end position.

Post # 16
3076 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - A court...

Lol were young so Dh only has his high school diploma but employed. He just needs a month of school to be done though :-/ but prefers me to go to school.*shrug*

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