Post # 1
Curious to find out what everyone thinks is most worth it to DIY – what did you DIY and why?
I’m thinking time, cost savings and fun!
Starting things off…
Time: 30 minutes
Monogram mugs that spell L-O-V-E for the guest book table.
$8 / mug at Anthropologie; $1.50 / mug at Daiso.
Cost savings: 90% or $133
Raw edge two-tier veil
$148 at David’s Bridal; $15 for DIY: $3 for tulle from fabric.com + $12 vintage barrette at a local thrift shop
I’ve only made washi tape clothespins for escort cards and polka dot picnic blankets so far, so not sure what’s winning in fun.
Any ideas ladies? 🙂
Post # 3
i DIYd flowers because it was a difference of $2500 at a florist, or $75 DIY. Definite nobrainer
Post # 4
- Wedding: June 2014 - British Columbia
Invites! It would have costed us > $3 per invite, before postage.
Time: 4 hours for DIY india ink painting; 1.5 hours for choosing the right free fonts (from dafont.com) I did everything on Inkscape and Microsoft Word. Grabbed maps from the town’s visitor guide (printing to OneNote, then cropping it on Inkscape)
It will cost me mere $1.50 per postcard invite after postage.
DIY Website. (Using mywedding.com)
Post # 5
You really just have to do comparisons of the cost of buying what you want versus the cost of materials and the time taken to DIY it. Some of the DIY projects that represented the biggest cost savings for us were:
- Chuppah (Jewish wedding canopy). Cost of renting the one we liked would have been $800 for one day–and then we would only have had it for the ceremony, not the at-home reception. Instead, I made one for a total cost of under $200, then sold it for $200, so there was no net cost.
- Lighting paper lanterns. The cost paid for lights, batteries, and miscellaneous supplies, minus the amount we got back on resale, was probably about $10. Having a professional do the lighting would probably have been a couple of thousand dollars at minimum.
- Uplighting. Total cost of 8 spotlights plus colored gels, minus resale price, was $37.79. Cost of having a professional do it would have been a couple hundred minimum.
I also liked these projects because they were big and splashy, and made a real impact relative to the time and expense involved.
Post # 6
I designed my own invitations using Zazzle. The printing was really inexpensive even with upgraded paper.
Post # 7
Cost to buy: approx $150
Cost to make: $40
Getting exactly the one I wanted: priceless!
Post # 8
My DYI invitations were not necessarily cheap….but cheaper than they would have cost me to have them made by someone else.
Also my flowers were not cheap but I could not have got anything cheaper or anything remotely close to what I made.
I guess what was most worth it was getting exactly what I wanted…and I had fun doing it!
Post # 9
For cost savings, perhaps my veils (one blusher, one cathedral length) b/c those suckers are way over-priced retail. They are easy to cut, but I hand beaded mine as well which took some time. I really liked doing it though.
The invites were a big cost saver too. I spent about $60 for 110 invites and I love them. They are not as much fun to do, but not too bad.
Most fun is the little things in decor I’ve done. I absolutely love making the different paper flowers. I love painting, so the all the signs were a great project.
I really don’t DIY anything that I don’t enjoy doing. I have a crafting addiction.
Post # 10
@MrsWinTraining2014: awesome job! Did you grow the flowers yourself? I can’t figure out how to get $75 flowers, even if I’m going to SF Flower Mart / Costco / Trader Joe’s flowers!
@Cynderbug: do people get professionals to make them their web sites? I’m going to have to remember dafont.com. Thanks for the tip!
@2dBride: your chuppah is GORGEOUS – a top 10 that I’ve seen so far!
@lovecacti: invites seem to be a popular DIY! +10 for upgraded paper — it just feels nicer! 🙂
@renwoman: agreed! There’s so many veil tutorials online and on the bee, it’s a nice, fun project for an afternoon.
@Luayne: Your colors are so rich. They photograph so luxoriously!
@wabanzi: Agreed. I decided to make mine as a plan b, in case FMIL changes her mind about letting me wear her veil. Did you develop your crafting addiction before or after wedding planning?
Post # 11
So far, my biggest save with DIY was my STD’s.. the lace ones I wanted were $8.. I made these for $1.90 each :
But.. our invitations will be a HUGE save.. it’s costing us maybe $100 to make our invitations.
We are also saving ALOT of doing our own cocktail hour food, flowers, and centerpieces.
Post # 12
@bitsybee: Thanks! I am definitely a colour person (including a deep purple dress!) and it’s hard to get that kind of colour unless you DIY let alone the steampunk details that we wanted.
Post # 13
We are DIYing a lot. We set a budget which could pretty comfortably cover most things we wanted, but we thought it would be better to work on as much as we could ourselves and make the rest really awesome.
One of FI’s brothers is an amazing cook and baker, so he will be helping us make the cake, with me and FI ‘icing’ it (we’re actually having a white chocolate ganache and crystalised flowers). I am designing and making the bridesmaid dresses. Flowers are being ordered wholesale through a florist connection of FI’s mother, and alcohol is wholesale through FI’s father. I did some calligraphy a few years ago, so I am getting some new nibs and ink and doing our STDs and invitations. I’ll be doing my own makeup and hair. I’m making a ‘guestbook’. I’m considering DIYing my veil, as they’re pretty expensive for what they are, but I’m not sure I could do a good job of it. I’ve made plenty of clothes before but I’ve never used that sort of fabric. FI is coding our wedding website. Loads of other little things which I can’t remember right now.
Our rule is basically to ask ourselves over everything ‘Could we make this ourselves, and would it be better for the same cost?’. If yes, then we can’t buy it. The vast majority of our budget is going on, in order, catering, dress, decor (not including flowers) and photography. I guess you could argue the decor is a DIY thing; our venue (a large hall in the countryside) was practically free and comes completely unadored. So we’re bringing in the Chiavari chairs, tables, lots of greenery, fairy light canopy, candles, etc. The lights are costing £1000, and the chairs and tables are adding £500, but the rest of the decor costs are pretty negligible individually, so it’s still much cheaper than hiring a venue which is already looking fancy. Our caterer is a little on the pricey side but I really liked her when we met her and I think she’s going to make it really beautiful – there’s no way we could do this one ourselves. Thanks to all the money we’re saving elsewhere, we’ve gone from having a nice buffet or a mediocre three course meal to having a great five course meal and canapés. It’s going to be a lot of work…but I love planning, and I think we can pull it off. Having everything completely customised and personal to us is a wonderful bonus.
Post # 14
@bitsybe good job on the savings! We are DIY-ing centerpieces, escort cards, invites, bouquets, any other signs and decor, and boutonnières. I love DIY! Plus we’re saving a ton so it’s win-win. We found lots of our frames and books for centerpieces on freecycle.org and bouquets are going to be dried flowers which I love and are less expensive/high maintenance than fresh
Post # 15
We are DIYing a lot as well. Centerpieces, dessert bar, isle decor, favours, decor, our cake cutting set and much more… here are a few pics..
DIY soap favours… they will be tweaked a little from this picture. These were my originals and now we will be making 3 bars and bundling them together.
Our centerpieces.. we will be using real flowers.
The cake set I DIY
And our extra lighting will be these chandeliers and hanging lace covered jars w/ candles.
It is all worth it for me, exactly what i wanted and saved money!
Post # 16
For us it was our invitations. Costs 50 dollars for 200- would have been at least 1000