(Closed) Whats the longest you would go without sex?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How long have you gone without sex with your SO?
    1 week-1 month : (140 votes)
    44 %
    1-4 months : (96 votes)
    30 %
    4-8 months : (26 votes)
    8 %
    8-12 months : (10 votes)
    3 %
    longer than a year : (45 votes)
    14 %
  • Post # 3
    473 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    2 weeks !! I was forced !! Well literally force by my doctor because oF my painfull kidney stones I was bleeding to much so We couldn’t have sex !! We can’t stop unless is something necessary !  But we are married now so doesn’t matter if a get pregnat !!! 

    Post # 4
    3967 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @lioness_89:  We haven’t “given it up” but we are long distance, so quite often we don’t see each other for 2-5 months, if that counts. However, I waited 1.5 + years into the relationship before becoming, ahem, active.

    Post # 5
    4693 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    About a month because he was away for work.


    Post # 6
    7288 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    3 years! haha we waited til marriage to have sex πŸ˜‰

    Now if one of us got into an accident, became sick or paralyzed, Id work around things. One can get pleasure from more than just vaginal intercourse.

    Post # 7
    928 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    DH was told to abstain from sex for 1 month because of a lower back injury. We totally cracked after a week and found a way to get creative. Embarassed. We both need lovin’ in our life!

    Post # 8
    1653 posts
    Bumble bee

    Honestly, we both kind of can’t stand more than 3 or 4 days.

    The longest we went though has been one month this past December. He was busy getting his business set up and I barely saw him because I was working 2 jobs for the holidays and finishing up that semester of school, then I had kidney stones for  2 weeks and then I was on my period.

    We both (sort of…) agreed that I would stop staying over our apartment (well, now just his until after the honeymoon) and we would stop having sex on June 1st. I don’t know if it is going ot happen but I’d like to try our hardest. I think it’d make our wedding night and honeymoon that much better!

    But good luck, OP! I wish you guys the best!

    Post # 9
    411 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    My Fiance is career military, so I am regularly trying to prep myself for the inevitable long separation that comes from that. The longest we’ve gone so far has been six weeks, and I was a misery by the end of it. Mean and cruel and short-tempered. LOL at least all my friends knew the reason and didn’t hold it against me πŸ˜‰

    Who knows, maybe you’ll have fun pretending you’re 16 again and BJs are the best thing ever!!!!

    Post # 10
    5072 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    not more than a week.

    Post # 11
    590 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2012 - St. Philip Catholic Church/Arcadia Brewing Co.

    I have been on the pill for a couple years and when we first got engaged with all of the excitement (and family visiting) I forgot to take it for two days ( I never forgot before) I thuroughly freaked myself out and so we used condoms for the rest of the engagement and on top of that did not have any sex during lent (our wedding was the satuday after Easter). It was SO difficult but it made the wedding night/honeymoon that much better! πŸ˜‰

    Post # 12
    1433 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012 - Historic Lougheed House

    I haven’t had sex for a month (in Africa) and I am readyyyyy to fly home to Canada.  If we were together, about a week is the longest. 

    Post # 13
    11506 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2009

    Well, I’m sure I, along with a few others, may have some responses that are not within the norm, since I was a virgin (by choice, because of my faith) when I married, and I did not get married until I was in my mid 40s! 

    When DH tells me that I don’t have any patience, I just smile and tell him that I used it all up waiting until I was married before having sex! πŸ™‚

    Post # 15
    5493 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2011

    Hmmm probaly 2 weeks just due to being tired or stressed.  But longer than that and I start to get very grouchy.

    Post # 16
    1653 posts
    Bumble bee

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    @lioness_89:  The sad part is we don’t even live together! We just got out apartment but he is staying there b y himself and I’ll move in after the wedding!

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